Pornography does not have to make women shudder; in fact, it could be quite a thrilling and interesting experience for both partners.

Obviously, we're not referring to the kinds of movies in which a pizza delivery guy shows up and gets lucky with six women. Most women need plots, however weak, in whatever they watch and porn is no exception to the rule. While it's true that most women don't watch porn because the men are ugly, it's visual and contrived (among other reasons), a lack of plot is probably the greatest deterrent.

With that in mind, you can be sure that the following will teach you how to use porn to improve your sex life.
Watch And Learn
Porn, or the more acceptable "erotic movie," can improve your sex life by increasing sexual pleasure and desire through stimulating visual images of positions and techniques. Not to mention auditory enhancers such as moaning, screaming for more and dirty talk.

There are many advantages to blending porn movies into your sex life. Below is a list of the positive effects and ways you can use porn to improve your sex life, whether you're in the midst of or at the beginning of a relationship.
Partners can mimic the same positions, which can add new varieties of sensations.
Because of their aural effects, porn movies can liberate both partners, allowing them to become very vocal as well.
Porn can turn you and your woman on because of the voyeuristic impression of watching other couples making love.
Partners can role-play, assuming the different roles that the characters exhibit in the film.
Partners can learn different techniques and perhaps stimulate each other in more innovative manners (i.e., spanking, cunnilingus/fellatio with ice cubes, blindfolds, etc.).
Watching porn can make orgasm and ejaculation more intense and exciting.
Don't Stare; Participate
There are certain things men should keep in mind when watching porn with their girlfriend of wife, especially if this is something new and edgy for their women. Here are some "safety" tips you should keep in mind:
Stare at your partner more often than the screen.
Don't appear too aggressive (unless she wants you to be) or eager.
Tell her she's sexy, beautiful and a turn-on while you're having sex with her.
Don't compare what the women in the porn is doing to what she's doing.
Because the senses play a huge part in any sexual experience, seeing and hearing others having sex will stimulate the body physically, making both partners secrete natural lubrication.

Enjoying a mutually satisfying experience will enrich your sex lives and may, perhaps, lead to other new ideas. Don't be afraid to try new things with your partner because you'll never know what you like (or don't like) until you try it.
It's Not Sex Ed
Always keep in mind that porn movies are not the standard for sex; they're simply a way to improve your sex life. Basically, your partner's comfort and sexual satisfaction should be more important than the movie.

As long as both of you are enjoying what's happening on the screen (there are some really nasty things going on out there -- things even we wouldn't try), porn is acceptable as an enhancement to your sex life. Keep in mind that movies shouldn't be brought into the bedroom every night, as they will no longer have the desired effect they once did.

Porn can serve to make you and your lady feel at ease, allowing you to moan more loudly than usual -- not to mention, climax without inhibition. Because porn movies are meant to be occasional tools and not essential instruments in sexual scenarios, you should use them wisely and sporadically.