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Saturday, May 25, 2013
Don't Tell Her How You Feel Too Fast, Only Surprise Her If It's Going To Last
Okay, hold on to your keyboard and mouse, because I have some bad news for you.
When you "can't resist telling her how much you like her," you demonstrate a very special personality trait that I like to refer to as acting like a wuss.
This means that instead of being cool, relaxed, and seeing where things go, you get overcome with emotion and feelings for a girl you don't even know, and decide to let her know what a wuss you really are.
She probably enjoyed spending time with you. She may have even been interested in you in a romantic way.
But when you go and blurt out your feelings for her, it makes you look like a bizarre fan or stalker. Bad thing.
I have some more bad news for you. Usually this woman is attractive.
I mean physically attractive. She's probably hot.
Guess what?
For some strange reason, men feel compelled to tell unusually beautiful women things like "I have feelings for you" or "I really, really like you" or "You're special" very early on in a relationship.
And guess what?
They start to think that all men are wussies, that they must be crazy, etc., and when they meet another guy who shares his feelings after the first date, they run for the hills.
You need to lean back. Give women room.
Don't see a new woman more than once or twice a week for the first several weeks (especially if she's unusually attractive).
Find out whether it's okay to surprise a woman with gifts if you're into her and why women like jerks...Do You Think It's Okay For A Guy To Surprise A Woman By Taking Her To A Nice Restaurant Or Buying Her A Gift Every Once In A While If He's Into Her?
You mentioned something that I don't bring up very often, but it's important to be "generous" and "thoughtful" with the woman in your life.
Now, before I talk about this, keep in mind that this isn't something to do with a woman you've just met. Save this for later, after you've been out several times.
This is the kind of thing you do with a woman you really like and might be interested in pursuing a relationship with.
If a woman mentions that she wants to go to a particular restaurant, make a mental note, then surprise her and go there a few weeks later.
Remembering things, then acting on them later as a surprise makes a huge impact. It's a very considerate thing to do.
But like I said, this is something you do down the line with a woman that you really like. Not in the beginning!
Why Are Women Attracted To Guys Who Act Like Jerks?
You know, I'm reminded of the part in the movie The Matrix when Morpheus says, "He's starting to believe."
I know, it's a total and complete freak show that this kind of thing makes women feel attraction.
But remember, it's not what you're saying and doing that creates the feeling, it's what it means about you.
Women are attracted to men who are strong, independent, and even a little cocky. When you do and say the right things, you're communicating a quality about yourself... which is very attractive.
And the proof is in the pudding. The responses you'll get from women tell the story.
"He's starting to believe."
How Might You Get Things To Become "Playful" If You Found Yourself Alone With Two Beautiful Models In Their Mid-20s And A Bottle Of Wine?
Okay, now you've done it.
You're starting to ask one of those "all men will hate you and wish you would get a huge boil on your nose" questions.
But I have to allow it because it's so damn juicy.
Two models? Mid-20s? Playful? Vino?
Here's what I'd do if I were you...
I'd suggest a game of "Truth or Dare." Of course, you could suggest "Spin the Bottle," but I think it's better to play while drinking the vino.
Truth: "Have you ever kissed a woman?"
Dare: "Do it."
You didn't hear that from me... I know nothing.
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