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Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Don't Talk About Age, Aroused Women Are All The Rage
It's A Fact That Women Love Confidence. But How Can A Guy Gain This Confidence And Convey It To Women?
The frame that works best for attracting women can be summed up in three words: It's Always On.
To really be successful with women, you must be so confident that anything she says or does is proof that she is attracted to you.
So how can you take on this powerful attitude for yourself?
Here are some techniques that you can use to become a more confident guy:
1. Become "principle centered" instead of validation centered
If you come from a place of honesty, trust, respect, integrity, and loyalty, you will always be confident because you will always know you are doing the right thing.
2. Prescribe the symptom
This technique is from Milton Erickson, the famous therapist and hypnotist, whom I admire greatly.
Take control of your shyness by deciding in advance to deliberately be shy when you go out. This gives you a sense of control over the emotion. You'll find that the next time you go out, you will be able to control the emotion and feel more confident.
3. Earn confidence through self-knowledge
When you truly understand yourself and what you want out of life, and know exactly who you are, it is a huge source of confidence.
What is your mission in life?
4. Be cool
People become "cool" when they no longer fear other people's disapproval, or, said another way, when you are no longer seeking other people's approval.
Find your own path in life and stick to it. Do what's right for you, no matter what anyone else has to say.
Do Women Really Like Sex As Much As Men?
One thing that (for some strange sociological reason) is often hard for guys to accept is that women love sex as much as men do. Maybe even more.
If you don't believe me, take a look at the cover of any popular women's magazine... or pick up a romance novel and turn to ANY chapter.
Just like you, women think about sex all of the time.
Sex is the fabric of life between a man and a woman. It's a beautiful and natural thing... and it's important to become comfortable with it if you really want to achieve success with women.
Get used to the fact that woman are highly sexual creatures.
And trust me -- that's a good thing!
Don't waste your time with dating..How Long Should You Date A Woman Before Putting The "Moves" On Her?
Too many guys make the mistake of thinking they have to "date" a woman in order to have any sort of sexual relationship with her.
The fact is men who take women on "dates" and do courtship-like things are delaying their own success... and sometimes blocking it permanently.
When you do these types of things, it automatically puts her in a "dating" frame of mind, which has several major associations that go along with it.
Here are just a few:
A guy who takes me out on dates wants to get to know me
Getting to know a man takes at least three dates or three months
A man I am "dating" will think I am "easy" if I sleep with him before I get to know him
Fact: When you put a woman in the "dating" mindset, you are delaying pleasure for both of you.
How Do You Make A Woman Feel More Comfortable About Coming Back To Your Place?
Women have two basic fears when it comes to dating men and sexuality:
1. Fear of being labeled
Because of social conditioning, women are afraid that they will be judged if they have sex with you, especially if other people hear about it.
Find ways to reassure her that you won't kiss and tell, and you'll increase your chances of making something happen.
2. Fear of rape
At some point in her life, almost every woman has been made to feel uncomfortable by a man who wanted sex from her.
Let her know early on that trust is very important to you, and that if at any point she is feeling uncomfortable, she can tell you to stop, and you will.
Women appreciate it when you are upfront about this. Make the effort to communicate with them and let them know that they can trust you.
What Do You Say When A Younger Girl Asks How Old You Are?
Always stay in control of conversations, and learn how to bust on women in a way that cranks up the attraction.
If a woman asks how old you are, instead of answering, just ask her how much she weighs.
And if she shares how much she weighs, guess what? It's always just a pound or two above your limit for a woman's weight!
Of course, you do this in a playful, teasing way.
The frame that works best for attracting women can be summed up in three words: It's Always On.
To really be successful with women, you must be so confident that anything she says or does is proof that she is attracted to you.
So how can you take on this powerful attitude for yourself?
Here are some techniques that you can use to become a more confident guy:
1. Become "principle centered" instead of validation centered
If you come from a place of honesty, trust, respect, integrity, and loyalty, you will always be confident because you will always know you are doing the right thing.
2. Prescribe the symptom
This technique is from Milton Erickson, the famous therapist and hypnotist, whom I admire greatly.
Take control of your shyness by deciding in advance to deliberately be shy when you go out. This gives you a sense of control over the emotion. You'll find that the next time you go out, you will be able to control the emotion and feel more confident.
3. Earn confidence through self-knowledge
When you truly understand yourself and what you want out of life, and know exactly who you are, it is a huge source of confidence.
What is your mission in life?
4. Be cool
People become "cool" when they no longer fear other people's disapproval, or, said another way, when you are no longer seeking other people's approval.
Find your own path in life and stick to it. Do what's right for you, no matter what anyone else has to say.
Do Women Really Like Sex As Much As Men?
One thing that (for some strange sociological reason) is often hard for guys to accept is that women love sex as much as men do. Maybe even more.
If you don't believe me, take a look at the cover of any popular women's magazine... or pick up a romance novel and turn to ANY chapter.
Just like you, women think about sex all of the time.
Sex is the fabric of life between a man and a woman. It's a beautiful and natural thing... and it's important to become comfortable with it if you really want to achieve success with women.
Get used to the fact that woman are highly sexual creatures.
And trust me -- that's a good thing!
Don't waste your time with dating..How Long Should You Date A Woman Before Putting The "Moves" On Her?
Too many guys make the mistake of thinking they have to "date" a woman in order to have any sort of sexual relationship with her.
The fact is men who take women on "dates" and do courtship-like things are delaying their own success... and sometimes blocking it permanently.
When you do these types of things, it automatically puts her in a "dating" frame of mind, which has several major associations that go along with it.
Here are just a few:
A guy who takes me out on dates wants to get to know me
Getting to know a man takes at least three dates or three months
A man I am "dating" will think I am "easy" if I sleep with him before I get to know him
Fact: When you put a woman in the "dating" mindset, you are delaying pleasure for both of you.
How Do You Make A Woman Feel More Comfortable About Coming Back To Your Place?
Women have two basic fears when it comes to dating men and sexuality:
1. Fear of being labeled
Because of social conditioning, women are afraid that they will be judged if they have sex with you, especially if other people hear about it.
Find ways to reassure her that you won't kiss and tell, and you'll increase your chances of making something happen.
2. Fear of rape
At some point in her life, almost every woman has been made to feel uncomfortable by a man who wanted sex from her.
Let her know early on that trust is very important to you, and that if at any point she is feeling uncomfortable, she can tell you to stop, and you will.
Women appreciate it when you are upfront about this. Make the effort to communicate with them and let them know that they can trust you.
What Do You Say When A Younger Girl Asks How Old You Are?
Always stay in control of conversations, and learn how to bust on women in a way that cranks up the attraction.
If a woman asks how old you are, instead of answering, just ask her how much she weighs.
And if she shares how much she weighs, guess what? It's always just a pound or two above your limit for a woman's weight!
Of course, you do this in a playful, teasing way.
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