Why do you teach the concept of "Cocky and Funny"? What is the reasoning behind it?
Why do I teach the concept of being Cocky and Funny?

Because it's the absolute best way I've been able to find for a regular guy to communicate
 in a way that makes an attractive woman feel a gut level attraction .

Attraction is tough to explain. It would appear to be a simple concept. But it's not. If you want to be able to create it, you have to understand things that most guys don't get.

Cocky & Funny communicates many things:

That you're an alpha-type male. Even though you're making jokes and being funny, you're talking in a way that only confident men talk. This is attractive.


Humor requires intelligence and creativity. And when you use humor with a little bit of cockiness, it comes across as "superiority." Also attractive.


It says "I get it" in a very subtle way. Attractive women are approached all the time by men, in one way or another. When you're acting cocky and funny, it's a very detached kind of attitude. An attractive woman who is used to being approached all the time and worshipped finds the attitude very interesting and refreshing.


It's unbelievably easy and low-risk. It beats the hell out of fighting to show off that you're a dominant male.


And on and on...

The point is that there are about a hundred great reasons to use the attitude.

What should you do if her friend is getting in the way, and are online personal ads worthwhile?

What should a guy do if he meets a woman that he likes but the woman's friend tries to pull her away?
Get her e-mail address before her friend even knows what's going on!

Now this takes care of the initial problem. Then, go get another one, and another

Then, meet each of them for a 20-minute cup of tea during the week and decide if you like one or more of them enough to spend some time together later.

I have a friend who has slept with over 1,000 women... and when he goes out to meet women, he's not looking for a woman to take home that night. He's looking to get contact information.

Now, we're talking about a guy who likes to date a lot of women here! I realize you may not want 1,000 women, but the idea still rings true.

His words (paraphrased by me): "You have to run it like a business. Go out on the weekend and get 20 numbers, then call them all on Monday and set up your dates for the week."

This idea works just as well if you're looking to find one special girl as it does if you're looking to find one special girl every night.

Do you think guys can really meet women online using personal ads?
A lot of guys pass up the online personal thinking that only desperate and unattractive women would be running online personal ads.

Of course, nothing could be further from the truth.

There are all kinds of women online who are running personal ads, for all sorts of different reasons.

And personal ads give you the chance to communicate on a more "even playing field" with women, where you both have to actually communicate .

It's good stuff, especially when you're familiar with the style of communication that you've learned from my materials. It makes for good practice.