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Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Be Unpredictable, She Likes Judgmental
I'm Thinking Of Taking A Woman On A Date. Any Recommendations?
Think "emotionally stirring" and maybe even "dangerous." Roller coasters are great.
Something physical where you are the expert is also a great move. Do you like to rollerblade or ride a bike? Perfect.
Think about the unpredictability, danger and excitement that women love about "bad boys" -- these are great ways to give her the same feelings and emotions without being a jerk yourself.
Remember: It's not the "bad" that she likes; it's those qualities that coincidentally tend to go with so many bad boys that give her the feelings of excitement.
They Say That Women Are Attracted To Guys That Remind Them Of Their "Daddy." Is There Any Truth To This?
Well, what's more important are the qualities that "daddy" represents. A woman loves to be treated like she's a little girl.
Women want men who are stronger than they are. They also want a man who can take care of them, but not necessarily financially.
She also wants to feel that he is not dependent on her in any way.
When a woman is with this kind of man, it makes her feel secure and taken care of. And that leads to massive attraction.
Cultivate these three great "daddy" characteristics to make her melt:
1. Be judgmental
When interacting with a woman, appreciate her, but also judge her. It may seem counterintuitive, but being judgmental is good. It lets her know that you have other options and that you have high standards.
And because it's a "daddy" thing to be judgmental, it makes her respect you and feel more secure.
More characteristics that'll make her putty in your hands and when to ask for a second date2. Be the man
Be cool, calm and unflappable in the face of things that go wrong. If you spill your wine in a restaurant, you should be the kind of guy who knows how to handle himself gracefully and comfortably.
Use things that go wrong to further show off your qualities of excellence.
3. Be a gentleman
Being protective and showing little points of etiquette are great ways to demonstrate masculine strength.
Pulling out chairs, putting your hand on her back to guide her across a street and helping her put her coat on are all protective gestures that let her know she is with a man.
Do these things and who knows? She just might be calling you "daddy" soon!
If A First Date Is Going Well, Would You Try To Set Up The Second Date Right Then And There?
Never make a date on a date. This is a biggie.
When you're out with a woman and you try to make plans to see her again, you're basically letting the wuss out of the bag. This tells her instantly that she has you, which means the chase and the fun are over.
Instead, make it your goal to get her to ask you to hang out again. Let her do the chasing. Women love a man who is challenging and unpredictable, so don't blow this for you or for her.
This is the No. 1 "killer" of second dates for guys who think they are good with women.
Think "emotionally stirring" and maybe even "dangerous." Roller coasters are great.
Something physical where you are the expert is also a great move. Do you like to rollerblade or ride a bike? Perfect.
Think about the unpredictability, danger and excitement that women love about "bad boys" -- these are great ways to give her the same feelings and emotions without being a jerk yourself.
Remember: It's not the "bad" that she likes; it's those qualities that coincidentally tend to go with so many bad boys that give her the feelings of excitement.
They Say That Women Are Attracted To Guys That Remind Them Of Their "Daddy." Is There Any Truth To This?
Well, what's more important are the qualities that "daddy" represents. A woman loves to be treated like she's a little girl.
Women want men who are stronger than they are. They also want a man who can take care of them, but not necessarily financially.
She also wants to feel that he is not dependent on her in any way.
When a woman is with this kind of man, it makes her feel secure and taken care of. And that leads to massive attraction.
Cultivate these three great "daddy" characteristics to make her melt:
1. Be judgmental
When interacting with a woman, appreciate her, but also judge her. It may seem counterintuitive, but being judgmental is good. It lets her know that you have other options and that you have high standards.
And because it's a "daddy" thing to be judgmental, it makes her respect you and feel more secure.
More characteristics that'll make her putty in your hands and when to ask for a second date2. Be the man
Be cool, calm and unflappable in the face of things that go wrong. If you spill your wine in a restaurant, you should be the kind of guy who knows how to handle himself gracefully and comfortably.
Use things that go wrong to further show off your qualities of excellence.
3. Be a gentleman
Being protective and showing little points of etiquette are great ways to demonstrate masculine strength.
Pulling out chairs, putting your hand on her back to guide her across a street and helping her put her coat on are all protective gestures that let her know she is with a man.
Do these things and who knows? She just might be calling you "daddy" soon!
If A First Date Is Going Well, Would You Try To Set Up The Second Date Right Then And There?
Never make a date on a date. This is a biggie.
When you're out with a woman and you try to make plans to see her again, you're basically letting the wuss out of the bag. This tells her instantly that she has you, which means the chase and the fun are over.
Instead, make it your goal to get her to ask you to hang out again. Let her do the chasing. Women love a man who is challenging and unpredictable, so don't blow this for you or for her.
This is the No. 1 "killer" of second dates for guys who think they are good with women.
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