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Friday, May 24, 2013

The Conversation Ends, She Wants To Be Friends

Sexual Positions Women EnjoyWhat should a guy do when he's talking to a woman and he gets "stuck" and runs out of things to say?

One of the most important things you can do is mentally prepare for these kinds of situations.

Now, I don't want to sound like a weird motivational self-help guy, but mental preparation works.

Take some time when you're alone, close your eyes, and actually plan out how you'd like interactions with women to go. If you've never done this before, you'll learn a lot from it.

You'll think of things that you never would have imagined when you're taking things step by step in your mind.

One of the other best things you can do is get a journal so you can keep notes.

Try this: Sit down and write out 20 great things you could have said in that situation where you got stuck, then go through them and mentally imagine saying each one five times.

Another important thing to do is always know how to get her information and walk away.

If you really sense that the conversation is about to end, you need to know how to ask for her e-mail/number and go. You can do this at any stage in the conversation, as soon as you'd like.

Here are a few cheeky topics to try when talking to women:

1- Why women are crazy and men are perfect.
2- That she should stop thinking of you only as a sex object.
3- What she needs to change to have a chance with you.

Of course, you need to be able to present these topics in a Cocky & Funny way so she laughs while you're talking about them. But you'll find that topics like these can create some good fun with women.

What to do if she just wants to be friends or if she's a "10"

What should a guy do when a girl tells him that she "just wants to be friends" before they even get together?

Here's a rule of thumb for you:

If you start hearing things like "I just want to be friends" or "I'm kind of seeing someone right now" when you call women, it probably means that you're doing something when you first meet them that's causing them to see you as the "nice guy" type.

You're probably not using what you've learned to create what is known as sexual tension and attraction.

If you don't quite get how these things work at first, that's okay. Just keep doing what you're learning, and you'll start to get a better feel.

I would say that you should start using the Cocky & Funny material as soon as possible, because it does create this tension and attraction early on.

I also suggest that you start getting e-mail addresses and not just numbers. Women tend to respond better to e-mail, in my personal experience.

What would you tell a guy who is good at approaching and starting up conversations with most women, but gets nervous and blows it when he meets a "10"?

Well, first of all, you have to realize that every guy has a different idea of what a "10" is.

Yes, some women are obviously more attractive or "fixed up" than others, but we all have different tastes, and in the morning when she wakes up, she's going to look a whole lot different than she does when you first see her.

So remember: This girl who is a 10 to you is only a 6 or 7 to another guy. That should help.

Next, if you can't figure out how to get over your fear of approaching beautiful women, then you're going to have to just face your fear and do it anyway.

To start with, just focus on saying anything to the women you see. You need to see for yourself and teach your mind and body not to be afraid of women.

I don't care if you walk up to the next 100 women you see and say: "You're beautiful... can I have your autograph?" Actually, that's pretty funny... I just might try that one myself, come to think of it.

My point is that you need to just do something!

Most of the anxiety involved in approaching attractive women comes from the fear of the unknown and the fear of embarrassment or rejection.

Once you actually approach a bunch of women and talk to them, you'll find that nothing bad is going to happen to you. This works wonders.

Then, when you've gotten past your fear, you can lead the conversations into getting numbers, etc.

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