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Friday, May 24, 2013
Don't Give Her Your Card, Don't Try Too Hard

Well, at this stage in the game, I'd recommend that you always get her number and e-mail address.
You be the one to e-mail and call her first.
This way, you can follow up, and she knows that you know how to get a hold of her.
Giving her a card and asking her out on a "date" is probably a little too much, in my opinion.
When you do things like this, you come across as overly interested.
Better to say, "Hey, give me your e-mail," then e-mail and suggest a cup of tea. Then, if tea goes well, suggest something else... and so on.
Let things progress naturally, and don't come on so strong in the beginning.
What should a guy do to make a woman like him?
The way to make a woman like you is to:
1- Not act like all the other average guys out there.
2- Make her laugh.
3- Be unpredictable, challenging and mysterious.
Of course there are more ingredients, but use these for your first meeting.
Other tips to have her eating out of your hand, making a move on the first night, and dating several women at once..
Don't act nervous or uncomfortable. Treat her like you've known her all your life, almost like she's your bratty little sister.
Tease her and make her laugh. Have fun.
Don't be predictable. Do things that surprise her. Say things that keep her wanting more. Tell interesting stories, and don't answer her questions directly. Instead, make her work for the answers.
If a woman is showing interest in a man during their first time together, do you think he should make a move?
It's hard for most guys to lean back and not give a woman what she wants in the moment.
But if you can, just hold back, tease, and let the anticipation build up... and learn how to amplify a woman's feelings by doing this; you'll get so much further, so much faster.
On the other hand, if you always try to keep pushing forward, you'll run into resistance at every turn, and wind up frustrated because she's telling you to stop.
So take your time. It's okay to make a move the first night, but just make sure to build her anticipation and make her want it.
Do you think it's okay for a man to date several women at once, or will the women get jealous and leave him?
Jealousy is an interesting emotion. Some believe that it's the most powerful emotion.
Generally speaking, if a woman knows that you're seeing other women, it will make you more attractive.
But you must be careful.
Jealousy can make women crazy... and it can lead otherwise normal women to do all kinds of insane things. If you make the wrong woman jealous, she can turn into a stalker.
That said, my perspective is that you need to live your life and not worry about what others think of you.
This trait in and of itself will lead to women finding you more attractive.
If you're always worrying about whether a woman will be upset because she sees you out with another woman, then you'll be acting like a wuss all night because you're scared.
On the other hand, if you couldn't care less what others think of you, then it will project into all other areas of your behavior, and will lead to other good things.
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