Why is it that some men are just "naturals" at attracting women?

While I do know some men who are no doubt "naturals" when it comes to attracting women, I also know a lot of guys who are considered by most to be naturals but who actually made themselves so by cultivating the qualities inside themselves that are attractive to women.

Yes, you read that right. Naturals can be created. And you can do it.

We all have to learn how to socialize, deal with women and make the most of our lives.

So start by doing all you can to make yourself great in your own eyes...

That might mean working out and eating right, learning to play an instrument or learning a second language, taking a trip to a foreign country, or working with a charity to do some good in the world.

When you do these things, women will notice. And as you take the steps to make your life great and improve yourself as a person, you'll start to notice that your life -- and especially your dating life -- is exponentially better and more fulfilling.

You always hear women say "just be yourself" when asked about what a guy should do to attract them. Well, what if "yourself" isn't that attractive to women?

The phrase "be yourself" could easily be called the "universal" dating advice for men.

But what does this really mean?

What a woman wants is for you to be your real self the person you are around your family and your buddies.

Here's an example:

When you were a kid, playing a game with friends and your mom would yell, "Come home for dinner," of course you would say, "I'm almost done with the game mom. I'll be there when I'm finished!"

But then when you grow up and an attractive woman says, "Go to the bar and get me a drink," you say, "Right away dear!"

Find out what you should do instead, why women like jocks, and how to read her body language...Now let me ask you: is that "being yourself"?

No way. You're trying to win her approval by doing what she wants.

This is how the average man acts around an attractive woman, and women see this "wussy" behavior as you trying to be someone you're not.

So remember... your real self is not a wuss! So stop acting like one.

Women say they like men who are intelligent, but it seems like they tend to go for the dumb "jock" type guys. Why is this?

Instead of wondering why and getting upset about it, I suggest you meet some of these "dumb jocks" that get a lot of women and watch them in action. I think you'll be surprised at what you learn.

It can be hard to accept that you can learn from someone who isn't as smart as you are, but the fact is that you need to get out there and learn from whomever you meet that "gets it" with women.

I've found that a lot of the guys who are the best with women aren't of above-average intelligence, and I'm sure you'll discover the same to be true.

But don't let that fool you into thinking that your intelligence isn't a huge asset in learning this. When you watch these guys in the field, use your brain power to deconstruct the process of what these guys are doing, and make it yours.

Do you have any tips on reading a woman's body language to tell if she is interested?

Well, the first sign is in her eyes...

It's a scientific fact that a person's pupils will expand when they are looking at something they like. If her pupils expand in size as you are talking, you know she's into you.

Another way to tell if it's "on" is to pay attention to the way a woman shifts her body.

As a general rule, a woman will position her body toward you if she is interested in you, and away from you if she isn't.

If she touches you while you are talking, that's also a good sign.

You can "test" by giving a woman a slight, non-threatening touch on the wrist or arm and see if she touches you back.

If you're not getting any of these signs, then you probably have a lot more work to do.

But chances are your time would be better spent meeting five new women who are definitely interested.