Any tips for creating attraction with a woman when you are out together for the first time?

A very simple way to let your woman know that she is in the hands of a real man is to be chivalrous when you are out on the town.

Open doors for her, and always be sure to walk on the outside of the curb.

If some shady people cross your path, position yourself between them and her. This is all simple stuff, but you'd be surprised how many men forget it completely.

But this is, of course, good news for you. Because guys who do remember this stuff and practice it are handsomely rewarded.

Should a guy "make a move" the first time he is out with a woman?

Did you know that women hate when a guy they are attracted to doesn't make a move?

Yes, in some cases, you can use this to build anticipation and make her want you more, but eventually you must take the initiative and make something happen.

When a woman is really into a guy and he doesn't try to sleep with her, it makes her feel less attractive.

She also worries that you might not have the confidence to make a move, which makes you look less attractive.

Combine these two things together and the result is not good.

Remember this: She is not going to do it for you.

Alex put it very well when he said, "If you take off a woman's pants, she feels sexy, but if she has to take off her own pants, she feels like a slut."

Which option do you think a woman prefers?

Now, just because you make a move does not mean she's going to give in and sleep with you on the first night.

But she definitely wants you to try.

So don't let her down. Don't be a wuss. Make a move!

How should you get the first date anyway? Find out how to make her ask you out...

What's the best way for a guy to set up the "date" in the first place?

I just had a conversation with a friend who has a unique system for setting up dates with women...

The best part about it is how he actually gets women to ask him out when he is talking to them on the phone!

Here's how he does it:

He simply calls a woman up and talks in detail about an interesting and exciting thing he's planning on doing.

A few examples he gave were rollerblading by the beach, boxing in the park, going to happy hour with friends, and going to a "secret" restaurant where they make awesome desserts.

Somewhere along the way the woman will say, "That sounds fun"... or even better... "Can I come?" or "I want to go!"

And what kind of man would my friend be to turn her down?

Another great thing about this system is what he does if they don't hint or ask to join him.

He simply says "bye" and that he'll talk to them later.

This seems simple -- but in reality, it's vitally important.

Because he didn't end the conversation with a "next step" like "I'll call you later this week" or "Call me when you want to hang out" -- either person can call the other without giving up their power.

Think about it...

If at the end of a phone call you say to a woman, "Call me this Saturday" and she doesn't call, then you are giving up your power if you call her again.

Along those same lines, if you end a call with "I'll give you a call on Saturday," she can't call you until you call her first without giving up her power.

On the other hand, if you end the call with "I'll talk to you later" and later that night she happens to feel like getting together, she is totally free to call you up.

And if you end a call with "I'll talk to you later," you can call her again whenever you feel like it without looking like a wuss.

And if the next time you call her it doesn't go anywhere, but you end that call without a "next step," you can call her again whenever you want.

Here's the bottom line:

If you end every call like this, you can keep on calling her until she asks you out.

But based on my experiences, after you call a woman a couple of times and tell her about interesting things you are doing, even if she can't meet with you that day, she will call you when she can because she'll assume you'll be doing something fun.

In fact, if you just remember these two keys to phone conversations, you'll be amazed at how often women call you up to ask you to hang out.

Here they are again:

1- Talk about interesting things you are doing.
2- Don't end the call with a "next step." Simply say, "I'll talk to you later."