What Should I Do If I’m Already Seeing A Woman For A While, And I Really Want To Create A Special Evening?
OK, as you know I don't like to venture into the "relationship" realm, but I will make a comment here.

If you have been seeing a woman for awhile, and you REALLY want to blow her mind, DO SEVERAL THINGS THAT SHE LIKES ALL IN ONE DAY OR EVENING.

Take her to her favorite restaurant, give her a gift of her favorite flowers, wear the clothes that you know she likes, rub her shoulders, and, um... give her some good lovin'.

Romance is wonderful, as long as you don't overdo it and come across as a WUSSY.

Focus all of the things that she likes into one small window, and good things will come of it.

Then don't do them again for awhile... AT ALL.

She'll talk about that night forever, and she'll always be wondering when the next one will come.
Won’t A Woman Get Upset If I Tease Her, “Bust Her Balls,” And Use Your Cocky & Funny Technique?
Yes, in the real world, sometimes a woman will get upset because you're indifferent, or because you make fun and bust on her... it happens.

It's so hard for men to see that some women just aren't going to be right for them, and that some women aren't fun or interesting.

Just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean that she's also sweet, kind, loving, stable, etc.

Men tend to instantly assume that attractive women are more honest, more friendly, more trustworthy, etc., JUST BECAUSE THEY'RE ATTRACTIVE.

And it just isn't so. You will have to strike your own personal balance in regards to how you act toward women, and you'll have to learn for yourself which signs to watch out for.

I personally have no time for a woman who can't deal with a little teasing or who gets upset because she's not the center of attention and being courted like a princess.

I laugh if a woman gets upset by one of my jokes... IT'S VERY FUNNY! I just say "lighten up, a bad attitude isn't attractive."
If You Had To Boil Down How To Get A Woman To Like You In Just A Couple Of Paragraphs, What Would You Say?
The way to make a woman like you is to:

1- Not act like all the other average guys out there.

2- Make her laugh.

3- Be unpredictable, challenging and mysterious.

What's the secret behind communicating with a woman properly?
Of course there are more ingredients, but these are a start.

Don't act nervous or uncomfortable. Treat her like you've known her all your life... almost like she's your bratty little sister.

Tease her and make her laugh. Have fun.

Don't be PREDICTABLE. Do things that surprise her. Say things that keep her wanting to hear more. Tell interesting stories and don't answer her questions directly... instead, make her work for the answers.
Reader’s Question
Hey David,

I love reading your newsletters every time you mail them out, but I keep having the same problem. I can’t get myself to start conversations with girls. Yes, I know I'm really afraid of rejection and that makes me make up excuses as to why I won't come up to a girl.

I completely feel how you say that I should come up to a girl, talk to her for a minute, then say something like, "I have to get back to work now," leave and then turn back and say, "Hey, do you have e-mail?". But my question is this: How do I get a girl's attention to begin with? In other words, what do I say to her so that she will want to talk to me for that minute you talk about? I don't feel like saying, "Excuse me, Hi... my name is... do you work around here?". And I don’t think it would be the best solution for this. Do you?

CAT, San Francisco, CA
My Comments
You know, it's funny...

You're asking a question that every guy in the world wants to know the answer to.

It's a simple answer... and it's a DAMN complex answer at the same time.

One of the KEYS to approaching women you don't know is being able to do it as comfortably and naturally as when you call your mom.

If you get nervous, shaky and freaked out the woman will pick up on this... and it will make HER nervous.

You can walk up to a woman and say, "Hi, I don't have time to talk, but if you're single I'd really like to talk to you sometime... do you have email?" And if you do it in a calm, comfortable way, you can get a HIGH percentage of women to give you their info right there on the spot with no conversation needed.

On the other hand, if you're freaked out, nervous and acting like you're all jacked up on speed while driving a getaway car, it doesn't matter WHAT you say.

Experts estimate that approximately 7% of your communication is the words you use and 93% is your voice tone and body language.

In other words, the WORDS aren't very important at all.

So, how do you get the voice tone and body language under control and more importantly, your EMOTIONS?

Well, this is a simple and complex problem as well.

Personally, I have found that understanding exactly how and why women feel sexual attraction for men has DRAMATICALLY changed the way I interact with women.

If you DON'T understand this important process, you're just going to be "faking" it. If you DO understand it, you're going to be COMMUNICATING differently, and communicating with a different PART of the woman.