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Tuesday, May 28, 2013
She Won’t Call Back & More
What Should A Guy Do When A Woman Stops Returning His Calls? Keep Calling?
A lot of women have been taught that the way to “hook” a man is to play hard to get. And not returning phone calls right away -- or at all -- is one of the “techniques” these women use.
So don't worry about it.
But it’s also true that another reason a woman doesn’t return your calls is because you didn’t succeed at dialing up the attraction while you were with her.
So think about your interaction with her and make a mental note:
Were you interesting or boring and predictable?
Were you a challenge or did you let your “inner wuss” come out?
Did you bust her balls or did you kiss up to her?
As far as your question about calling, if you have to call her once a week for five weeks until you get a hold of her, what have you wasted?
Five extra minutes dialing the phone?
So what?
Now, if you're feeling like a needy little puppy and you're calling her five times A DAY trying to get a hold of her -- that's a different story.
As long as you're getting on with your life, keeping busy and dating other women, keep trying until you reach her.
And if you have a life that’s so busy and so full of other women that you FORGET about her, even better.
Do You Know Of Any Great Ways To Turn A Woman Who Is A Friend Into A Lover?
Like I say, if you meet a woman and she interacts with you long enough to form an impression of you and she DOESN’T feel attraction for you, there’s almost nothing you can do about it.
No amount of reasoning or logic will “convince” her to feel attraction for you.
This question is basically: "How do I get a woman who I've convinced not to like me to give me a second chance?"
In most cases, it’s much better to not even try; it's not worth the time, effort and energy. Just move on.
Stop calling her, start dating other women, and if she finds out that you’ve moved on, even better.
We all want what we can’t have.
Getting on with your life, ironically, is one of the best chances you have for her to feel attracted to you.
Why Do Moms Seem To Screw Up Their Sons’ Lives By Giving Horrible Advice About Dating Women?
The fact is, your mom… my mom… MOST moms have had the experience of meeting men who could arouse sexual passions… who turned around and USED and ABUSED them.
Yeah, I know -- the idea of mom getting used and abused by some jerk isn’t exactly a pleasant thought.
Given this history, it’s not like moms will have the clarity to pick out those behaviors that turned her on and made her feel attraction, and distinguish them from behaviors that resulted in emotional abuse.
Instead, she’ll tell you all the things that she wished a nice guy would have done to her to make her feel safe and secure.
But what she doesn’t know is that after about two days of this kind of boring and predictable behavior, she wouldn’t be able to stand it anymore… and she’d run down to the bad boy on the corner, hop on his Harley Davidson, and ride off into the sunset in search of adventure.
Never listen to mom when it comes to advice about women… unless it’s what women to stay away from.
Reader’s Question
First off, I would like to say thank you for taking the years that you did to get all of this great info, and being generous enough to spread the knowledge.
Here is my situation: I knew this girl back in high school, and I haven't seen her since graduation (about two years ago). I bumped into her the other day and WOW -- she is a 9.5, easily.
Well, having not yet tried any of your techniques, I thought "What the hell? Let's go for it." It worked. The Cocky & Funny technique was golden. It got her e-mail AND number.
We eventually went out and had a great time. A couple of days later, I went over to see her new place, and well, things got a little wild. (It all started with your amazing kiss technique -- thanks again.)
So here's the deal: She likes me a lot, and I like her a lot, but I have been playing back in order to keep the ugly head of the "wussy" out of the picture. When is a good time (or is there a good time at all) to be serious with her? Do I bust on her all the time because I don't want her to think I am a jerk? Any help you can give is great.
A lot of women have been taught that the way to “hook” a man is to play hard to get. And not returning phone calls right away -- or at all -- is one of the “techniques” these women use.
So don't worry about it.
But it’s also true that another reason a woman doesn’t return your calls is because you didn’t succeed at dialing up the attraction while you were with her.
So think about your interaction with her and make a mental note:
Were you interesting or boring and predictable?
Were you a challenge or did you let your “inner wuss” come out?
Did you bust her balls or did you kiss up to her?
As far as your question about calling, if you have to call her once a week for five weeks until you get a hold of her, what have you wasted?
Five extra minutes dialing the phone?
So what?
Now, if you're feeling like a needy little puppy and you're calling her five times A DAY trying to get a hold of her -- that's a different story.
As long as you're getting on with your life, keeping busy and dating other women, keep trying until you reach her.
And if you have a life that’s so busy and so full of other women that you FORGET about her, even better.
Do You Know Of Any Great Ways To Turn A Woman Who Is A Friend Into A Lover?
Like I say, if you meet a woman and she interacts with you long enough to form an impression of you and she DOESN’T feel attraction for you, there’s almost nothing you can do about it.
No amount of reasoning or logic will “convince” her to feel attraction for you.
This question is basically: "How do I get a woman who I've convinced not to like me to give me a second chance?"
In most cases, it’s much better to not even try; it's not worth the time, effort and energy. Just move on.
Stop calling her, start dating other women, and if she finds out that you’ve moved on, even better.
We all want what we can’t have.
Getting on with your life, ironically, is one of the best chances you have for her to feel attracted to you.
Why Do Moms Seem To Screw Up Their Sons’ Lives By Giving Horrible Advice About Dating Women?
The fact is, your mom… my mom… MOST moms have had the experience of meeting men who could arouse sexual passions… who turned around and USED and ABUSED them.
Yeah, I know -- the idea of mom getting used and abused by some jerk isn’t exactly a pleasant thought.
Given this history, it’s not like moms will have the clarity to pick out those behaviors that turned her on and made her feel attraction, and distinguish them from behaviors that resulted in emotional abuse.
Instead, she’ll tell you all the things that she wished a nice guy would have done to her to make her feel safe and secure.
But what she doesn’t know is that after about two days of this kind of boring and predictable behavior, she wouldn’t be able to stand it anymore… and she’d run down to the bad boy on the corner, hop on his Harley Davidson, and ride off into the sunset in search of adventure.
Never listen to mom when it comes to advice about women… unless it’s what women to stay away from.
Reader’s Question
First off, I would like to say thank you for taking the years that you did to get all of this great info, and being generous enough to spread the knowledge.
Here is my situation: I knew this girl back in high school, and I haven't seen her since graduation (about two years ago). I bumped into her the other day and WOW -- she is a 9.5, easily.
Well, having not yet tried any of your techniques, I thought "What the hell? Let's go for it." It worked. The Cocky & Funny technique was golden. It got her e-mail AND number.
We eventually went out and had a great time. A couple of days later, I went over to see her new place, and well, things got a little wild. (It all started with your amazing kiss technique -- thanks again.)
So here's the deal: She likes me a lot, and I like her a lot, but I have been playing back in order to keep the ugly head of the "wussy" out of the picture. When is a good time (or is there a good time at all) to be serious with her? Do I bust on her all the time because I don't want her to think I am a jerk? Any help you can give is great.
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