What’s Your Advice If A Guy Is Chatting Up A Woman, But Hits An Awkward Silence And Runs Out Of Things To Say?
Yeah, I have some advice: What you need to do is plan in advance a couple of choice ways to recover.

For example, you could say: "You love me," “This relationship isn't going to work," and "Don't turn into a stalker, OK?"

There's a list of three to get you going.

What’s beautiful about these responses is that you can use them in just about ANY situation, with ANY woman.

Let’s say you’re at a club and you’re flirting with a girl and she’s laughing and hitting on you. Look at her with a straight face and say, “You love me.”

Now, 99% of guys won’t have the nerve to say anything REMOTELY like this. So when you say this, you’ll instantly put yourself a cut above any other guy she’ll talk to the entire night.

Nice.

Practice these comebacks until they’re natural.

But remember: The purpose here isn’t to be CUTE; the purpose is to build ATTRACTION.

When you use a comeback that’s bold and unpredictable -- that she’d never think you’d say in a million years -- attraction is EXACTLY what you’ll make her feel.

Then you need to know what the next step is… and the next… and the next.
I’m Attracted To Younger Women. Is Something Wrong With Me?
A lot of guys find something particularly attractive about younger women.

I get a ton of letters from guys in their 40s wanting to date women in their 30s, or from guys in their 30s wanting to date women in their 20s.

In these cases, there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with going for it.

In fact, you’ll find that many younger women find an older guy especially attractive. If you’re a bit older than her, chances are you have a maturity, confidence and presence that younger guys haven’t developed yet.

And that’s a good thing.

You just have to switch your perspective and see the truth that your age isn’t a PROBLEM… it’s actually your SOLUTION.

But if becoming older means you’ve become more boring and more predictable, than you need to fix this.

Nothing turns a woman off faster than a guy who is boring and predictable -- except an OLDER guy who is even MORE boring and predictable.

You feel me?

One other thing: It’s sad that I have to mention this, but NEVER try to meet or date women younger than the legal age in whatever country/state you live in. In other words, if you’re in your 30s and you’ve got a thing for 16-year-olds, you need to get some professional help right away, man.

What to do when you’ve been stood upf A Guy Sets Up A Date With A Woman But She Never Shows Up, What Did He Probably Do Wrong?
Well, the first thing you need to understand is that if you date enough women, a certain percentage will flake.

Of course, as you learn more about how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you, this will become much less of an issue.

But until you reach that point, I suggest having your first date at a coffee shop close to where you live, and bring something to read. That way, if she doesn’t show up, you haven’t driven half way across town to meet her, and you turn the situation into something else that DOESN’T involve her.

And remember: It’s not YOUR problem that she flaked, it’s HERS.

When a woman flakes out on me, I see it as a HUGE mistake that SHE made. Seriously.

And do you really want to go out with a woman who is flaky?
Reader’s Question
Hi Dave, I need your help!

When I go to clubs, I don't have a problem going over to a girl I like, so I don’t have a lack of confidence. But after a short space of time, I find myself struggling to keep the conversation going and start asking the boring questions like "Where do you come from?" and "How long have you lived here?"

BORING… What the hell do you ask a girl you know nothing about?

R.L., Boston, MA
My Answer
Yes, you do need my help.

The answer is simple: Stop trying to keep the conversation going. As soon as you start talking, END the conversation.

Say: "It was nice meeting you; I'm going to get back to my friends," then turn away. Quickly turn back and say, "Hey! Do you have e-mail?" If she says yes, pull out a pen and paper and say, "Here, write it down... I'd like to talk to you again."

It's really not that difficult.

The problem in busy, crowded, public situations is that there are WAY too many distractions. You're competing with music, drunk people or whatever else is around. It's like trying to have a meaningful conversation at a baseball game.

Instead, get the info and move on. If you follow up with a charming e-mail, you'll hear back 50% to 80% of the time (in my experience).

And for GOD'S SAKE... STOP ASKING BORING QUESTIONS! You're not on a job interview, and neither is she. Boring, lame, typical questions only position you as an average dork.