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Monday, May 27, 2013
Get Beautiful Girls, No Diamonds & Pearls
Do You Have Any Advice For A Guy Who Wants To Date Models And Other Really Attractive Women?
Ah, models. The object of desire for so many men.
And what do most guys do when they run into a woman who is of "model" quality?
They get nervous, act stupid, and say things that sound exactly like the other 47 guys she's talked to that day...
Beautiful women are some of the very best to bust on.
Think of it this way:
Her beauty (and, in the case of a model, fame) is her weapon.
It's where her power comes from.
When you approach a woman like this and immediately acknowledge her beauty, you also say, "I see that you are powerful, and I'm one of those who is affected by your power."
On the other hand, when you totally disregard her "outward beauty" and instead start making fun of her, teasing her and enjoying yourself, you say, "I am the powerful one, and your beauty magic doesn't work on me."
This has an instant effect.
It separates you from 999 out of 1,000 other men that she meets.
And if you're charming and funny as well, it just says all the right things.
Is It Okay For A Guy To Start Buying A Woman Flowers And Doing Special Things For Her Once He Is In A Relationship With Her?
Okay, as I have to mention every time I answer a "relationship" type question, I don't usually do this.
But you can be my monthly exception...
Find out if gifts and treats are acceptable, and why you shouldn't follow your mom's advice on women..
The reason I like your question is because it calls up another bigger issue... and that issue is when and if it becomes appropriate to start doing all the things that I try to get guys not to do in the beginning with women (take them out, buy them gifts, give them flowers, etc.).
Ah, models. The object of desire for so many men.
And what do most guys do when they run into a woman who is of "model" quality?
They get nervous, act stupid, and say things that sound exactly like the other 47 guys she's talked to that day...
Beautiful women are some of the very best to bust on.
Think of it this way:
Her beauty (and, in the case of a model, fame) is her weapon.
It's where her power comes from.
When you approach a woman like this and immediately acknowledge her beauty, you also say, "I see that you are powerful, and I'm one of those who is affected by your power."
On the other hand, when you totally disregard her "outward beauty" and instead start making fun of her, teasing her and enjoying yourself, you say, "I am the powerful one, and your beauty magic doesn't work on me."
This has an instant effect.
It separates you from 999 out of 1,000 other men that she meets.
And if you're charming and funny as well, it just says all the right things.
Is It Okay For A Guy To Start Buying A Woman Flowers And Doing Special Things For Her Once He Is In A Relationship With Her?
Okay, as I have to mention every time I answer a "relationship" type question, I don't usually do this.
But you can be my monthly exception...
Find out if gifts and treats are acceptable, and why you shouldn't follow your mom's advice on women..
The reason I like your question is because it calls up another bigger issue... and that issue is when and if it becomes appropriate to start doing all the things that I try to get guys not to do in the beginning with women (take them out, buy them gifts, give them flowers, etc.).
In other words, I think that deep down, most of us guys really want to treat women very well.
We want to do nice, thoughtful things for a special woman, and have her do nice, thoughtful things in return.
Amen?
The problem comes when we go overboard and start using gifts and favors too much, and start communicating to the woman that we are owned by her.
If you're going to do wonderful things for a woman that you care about, make sure that you do things that make an impact. And make sure that they aren't predictable.
If you want to give her a nice gift that doesn't cost a lot of money, cook her a meal, then give her a massage, and wrap up with feeding her fruit in bed, etc.
Women want things that communicate thoughtfulness. Not that they don't enjoy diamonds... but if you do something that says, "I was thinking about you, and I wanted you to have a great experience," it will make far more of an impact than an expensive gift that wasn't chosen with care.
But as I mentioned, don't overdo the gifts and favors; don't ever become predictable.
And, interestingly enough, this can be a great test to see how a woman can handle extra-nice treatment. If she starts acting overly demanding and spoiled after you give her the gift of a thoughtful experience, then you might have a damaged woman on your hands. Pay attention.
Okay, that's it for my non-relationship relationship ideas.
Why Do Moms Give Such Bad Advice? Don't They Want Their Sons To Be Successful With Women?
Listen: Your mom probably can't even remember what it's like to feel a gut level attraction for a man, and even if she can remember it, she's not going to be able to explain to you how to do it.
Moms have experience.
They know that guys who arouse sexual passions in a woman are usually bad news, and they don't want you to turn out that way.
Moms universally give horrible advice to sons on how to make women feel attraction for them.
I could go on, but I think you get my point.
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