Today, we will indulge in the wonderful world of role playing. Now I'm not referring to your typical French Maid and demanding boss kind of role playing. Rather, I'm talking about that kinky element that could be missing from what may otherwise be a very enriching sex life.

The beauty of role playing is that you get to be anyone you want, and that usually means that inhibitions (both yours and hers) slowly diminish into nothingness. Your best bet is to start off with something simple -- in other words, don't show up at your girlfriend's house dressed like a woman and expect her to start s
panking your butt for being a "naughty girl" -- she won't just slam the door in your face, she'll change the locks and have you arrested.
Vincent Van Grow
The first time I suggested to one of my many exes that we play a little game, she was amused but a little hesitant. So I told her that I would be an artist and she would be my canvas. I dressed her and made up her face with the tackiest makeup possible and when I perfected her to my liking, I instructed her to walk around the room, disrobe and perform certain licentious acts.

She was a little embarrassed at first, but when she realized that I was so into my role as the intense artist, she became more inclined to perfect her role as well. We ended up having great sex and as is the case with most of my women, she was screaming my name from the depths within.
Yes, That Is A Gun In My Pocket I'm Looking For An Escort
This role playing scenario might be a little costly (all escorts are), but you could rent a nice hotel room and tell your woman to meet you there. The catch is, you won't be there, but there will be a package with very sexy clothing inside (and a wig if you like). Leave a note telling her what to wear. Make sure to leave some wine (or her drink of choice) so that she can let loose and get comfortable.

Enter the room dressed to kill in a tux or a tailor-made suit and on this night, make demands, after all, she is an escort. Tell her how to fellate you, and move her into the positions that you like. You can even get a little aggressive and bite her neck and breasts.

After you make love, take her out on the town and show her off to the world, before returning to the room and doing it all over again. But this time, YOU be the escort and let her make the demands.
Take It Off
Give your girl a treat like never before. If you are the bold type, invite your girl over for a private dance show. Make sure she has plenty of one-dollar bills to stuff in your underwear. Guys, don't wear leopard G-strings; contrary to popular belief, women can't stand those.

A good idea would be to make a belt with bananas hiding your crotch area. Slowly remove a banana at a time and peel it, dip it into some pudding and make her take a bite of it. When you get to the last banana, peel it and hold it against your crotch, mimicking your penis. Make her suck on your banana like she wants it. She will definitely want to rip you apart by this time.

The fun part about this is that you can laugh and have a good time whilst doing it. Make sure the music is really loud so you can't talk; remember, you're supposed to be strangers in this situation and if you're constantly talking and kidding around, it may destroy your kinky intentions. And your goal here is to score like never before.

Remember that role playing is not simply about being someone else for an evening; it helps both of you divulge preferences that you may otherwise not reveal. Although you're behaving like someone else, these kinds of games give away your true interests.

So until next time, know your role!
Role playing could be expensive considering the costumes that you have to buy, but be creative; buy the handcuffs and a fake revolver or better yet, a water gun. You could be the cop who arrests her for "indecent exposure." Handcuff her to the staircase (or the like) and rub her body down slowly with the gun (that's the element of danger that women love so much).

If you have a water gun, spread her legs open and spray her vagina -- that's sure to please the best of them. Now obviously I don't mean that you should spray her as though you're trying to fill a balloon. Remain sexual at all times.

Another accessory that you could add to the costume to make it more authentic is mirror sunglasses. If she can't see your eyes, she'll take you, and the situation, more seriously.

The setting has to be right. If she has had a rough day, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be thrilled if you grabbed her by the hair when she got home and handcuffed her to a table. So remember that there's a time and a place for everything.
What'll It Be, Pretty Lady?
Invite her over to your house and play the bartender for the evening. Let her tell you about her day while you make her drinks and offer her advice, or continuously flatter her until she finally hits you with a tip; and not the monetary kind if you know what I mean.

When she offers to buy you a drink, tell her that she'll have to go to the dance floor and do a sexy dance for you first. By then, she'll probably be tipsy enough to follow through with no questions asked.

If she tries to kiss you or touch you, play hard to get and inform her that you can't mix business with pleasure. She'll be dying to get you inside her by then. And you can choose to say no of course -- yeah right, like that's going to happen.

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