How many times have we gone to a party, found ourselves really attracted to someone, and swore that we would do something about it? Yet how many times do we actually get nowhere with those same women? Unfortunately, these frustrations are part of every man's life. In fact, many men simply learn to accept it.

Most of us cope by deceiving ourselves and blaming the women: Ah! She's so stuck up. , What a snob! , or the famous A woman like that... she probably has a boyfriend . However, more often than no
t, the problem lies not with her but with our approach. Here are a few useful tips to get her interested at first sight.
The Golden Rules
Rule no.1: never approach a woman if she hasn't given you the look . All women will say the same thing. Of course, it doesn't have to be a passionate, love at first sight gaze, but at least let her get a good look from a distance. The last thing men should do is impose themselves. Her immediate reaction will be to wonder: Oh god, who's this joker and how do I lose him? . If there is no eye contact, you can always resort to the next best thing: get a mutual friend to introduce you.

Rule no.2: the mutual friend alternative is almost as good as the eye contact approach because, in both cases, there is no imposition. You are being innocently introduced, therefore your intentions are not as transparent. If, however, you are able to secure both the eye contact and the mutual friend introduction, then you're in business. The next step is crucial.
Mark Your Territory
I have seen this scenario too many times: Boy meets Girl at a party. Girl is actually interested by Boy, but Boy thinks the only way not to lose this new and exciting chemistry, is to not leave Girl's side for the next four hours! Don't get it wrong, the other alternative is not better either.History shows that having a really stimulating conversation for 10 minutes and then playing the shy and hard to get guy will not amount to much. However, when making the initial move, a way of striking her curiosity is to talk sexy to her. This will set the mood and open her up for future conversations.

What else can be done? A great approach is to move around. Once you have been formally introduced or have introduced yourself, by all means avoid the awkward silence of a conversation. This can kill any chances men have right from the very beginning. In other words, always have a way out; always be prepared to rotate.

But on the other hand, a man does not want this to seem rehearsed. The most natural tactic is to try and be attentive to what is going on around you. If your friends are with you, don't disregard them because the last thing you want to do is look too focused. This will only scare her away. Introduce her to your friends, lighten up the environment, and feed the conversation. Move around- go get yourself another drink.

If possible, try to leave on a high note with a really good joke or something. Don't forget, while you are rotating around the party, give her the occasional shy glance. Let her know that she is special.

It is important to remember not to over-rotate. Indeed, if one is truly interested in a woman, three rotations during the evening should be enough. If everything goes well, the third and final rotation will take place towards the end of the party. This is a safe and appropriate time to secure the walk or ride home, in which case, one has truly succeeded. Nevertheless, more often than not, one will end up with a phone number, which is still very satisfying. The next step is the first phone call. For this part of the plan,