It seems that when you're in it -- the dating game -- and landing women faster than you can say, "I'll call you," everything runs smoothly. But the hardest part might be getting back in after you've been out of the loop for a while.

Whatever your friends might be prone to tell you, it's not as easy as you might think. Many reasons explain the difficult transition and the sole purpose of the following advice is to clarify any inconspicuous aspects.
Feel The Pulse
The most important thing to remember when getting your feet wet in the women's scene is to take things one step at a time. Don't rush yourself into picking up a busload of women and getting numbers right away.

Like an old hockey legend that hasn't put on a pair of skates in years, the skills have to be re-mastered and refined. Not to say that it's an impossible task, but rather it has to be worked on first.
Get Yourself A Blind Date
Perhaps an excellent way to get back in the game is to have your friends set you up on a blind date with an unknown femme fatale. Such an alternative is great for breaking the ice and getting your confidence on the right track once again.

Of course, the road to eternal bliss doesn't come without bumps and grinds. You might pick up some scratches and bruises along the way, but that'll just make you more of an expert in the long run. You can call them "battle scars," if you will.

Remember that perfection comes at a price, and that price is one that requires sacrifice. So don't expect the first woman that comes along to fall prey to your hunting tactics.
Use Your Black Book
Get ready to attain a panoply of phone numbers before one turns into something worth pursuing. In the same manner that telemarketers work on cold leads, you have to expect some not-so-welcoming and short phone conversations to end in dial tone.

When you break out your infamous black book, be wise about it and put all the odds on your side. Basically, you should work your way down in order of completion factor. In other words, go for the ones that offer you a better chance of getting what you want, whatever that may be.

If you were already intimate with Rachel, then there is a good chance that she'll go for it again. It's common sense, that's all.

Another dire aspect worth remembering is that you should divide your pool of resources to make sure that you are not calling women from the same circle of friends. If you know that Yolanda and Carol are good friends, you should only get in touch with one of them. Contacting both will give for a scene out of Mission: Impossible ; only feasible if you are Tom Cruise.

This places all the odds on your side; you'll never have to fear that one of them would mention your call, only to have the other one say the same. This will ultimately land you the title of a desperate has-been, no matter how good you were back in the day.

Remember that these women know what your phone call is about, especially if you haven't spoken to or seen them in years. Women are not that dumb; they might play the part, but they know what's going on.

No matter how long it has been, the rules are still the same.


Rules Of The Game
Women will always be women and men will always chase them. Females will always enjoy being courted and having men at their feet, no matter how old they are. So getting back into the game whether you're 25 or 45 doesn't make much of a difference.

Of course, a man in his mid-twenties does not hear his marital clock ticking in the same way a man going through a midlife crisis would.

The underlying theme when resuming the art of seduction is to make sure your conquest is on the same path as you. It's not because you are hunting for some female love that a woman will have the hots for you.

Don't assume that she wants what you want; it's just not realistic. Be smart about things and break out your thinking cap. Make sure that this time around, you don't make the same mistakes twice.

The etiquette of a good lover is to respect and take care of his women, no matter where they fall on his scale of importance. Even if you never got what you wanted from a certain woman, that doesn't mean she won't cater to your needs the second time around.
Play On The Experience
Never alienate any potential woman because you never know when you'll end up dialing her digits once again. Furthermore, a reserved woman might have a bunch of outgoing and party girlfriends. This said, your efforts won't go unnoticed because every action has a reaction.

Some of the women you are contacting might already be committed and in another stage in life, which explains why they can't give in to your advances. But as good friends look out for each other, blind dates and group dates are very feasible for situations like this one.

With all these points of references, every man should be able to get back into the dating game and shoot to kill (not literally, of course). So lay all your worries to rest, slap on some cologne, slick your hair back, and work your charm. The rest, as they say, is history.