Why do you recommend that guys focus on getting e-mail addresses instead of phone numbers from women?
Because it's a lot easier. Women aren't as resistant to it; they respond to it better, and you're about twice as likely to hear back when you e-mail than when you call.

Again, there are all kinds of reasons for it.

How about the idea of getting her e-mail address within a few minutes of meeting her instead of going for "closes" and trying to take women home the night you meet them?

Why do I suggest that?

Wouldn't it make more sense to get her more interested in you on the spot? And strike up an interesting conversation to prove what a great guy you are?

Well, sure.

If you're the mac daddy of all time, then it's a great idea. But if you're a regular guy, it's probably not a good idea at all.

You see, if I go out on a Friday night with some friends, and we go to a couple of bars, there are a few interesting dynamics that are probably going on.

Women who are out are usually with friends. Friends don't like to have their friend taken away from them so you can mack on her.


Unless you're a pro, the chances that you're going to make a better impression by talking longer in a bar or other busy public setting are slim. There are a lot of distractions and a lot of other guys around who want your gal's attention (i.e. competition wastes time).


If you talk to one woman all night, you may or may not wind up dating her later.
In my experience, due to the reasons above, your chances get worse the longer you talk. It is much better to get an e-mail address (and number) from a woman within a few minutes, then move on and get another, and another. I know a lot of guys who go out and get three to five e-mails and numbers a night (some get a lot more). Then you have a bunch of prospects to follow up with during the week.

Why this technique works, how to attract women on a genetic level, and how to pick up nice girls...

The real point I'm trying to make is that the "Three Minute E-mail/Phone Number" technique isn't just a cute trick or a gimmick.

There's a reason why I use it personally and why I teach it and mention it so often.

It took me a long time to figure out all of the reasons that I've listed. But the point is that the technique and mindset behind it work and will get you more success than others.

Do you believe that a guy can really attract any woman he wants if he knows what he's doing?
I firmly believe that women feel attraction on a genetic level.

I believe that most women have an "attraction mechanism" that is only triggered if you either automatically trigger it because you accidentally do the "right" things, or you automatically trigger it because you know the right things to do.

And the guys who "accidentally" trigger that magical feeling of attraction in women are very few and far between.

Chances are that you're not one of them . If you are, congrats.

But if you're a regular guy like me who doesn't have women walk up to him and say "Hi, you're cute," then you need to learn how to trigger this genetic level attraction .

You have to get a clear understanding of the things that women unconsciously respond to, and then incorporate them into your behavior and communication.

In other words, you're not going to figure this one out with trial and error . And you're not going to figure it out by doing more of the same thing you've been doing for the last several years of your life.

I'll tell you something that I find very interesting.

After spending several years watching guys who are "naturals" with women, paying careful attention to what they do differently from other guys who have little or no success, and then adding research of how and why women respond the way they do to everything from body language to eye contact to their own genetic programming, I've realized that there are several "Master Keys" that a guy needs to understand and "get" before he can have consistent success with women.

And the good news is that any guy can learn to use these things to meet and attract the women he wants.

What about "nice girls?" Do they go for the types of things you teach?
"Nice" girls that are "settling down material" also like men who are interesting, challenging and funny.

And if you start acting like a wuss around them, they'll use you and toss you like an old pair of shoes.

Women -- naughty or nice -- don't want boring, ass-kissing, predictable guys who are uninteresting to spend time with.

All women want a guy that they feel attraction for. And being a wuss isn't going to make that happen, no matter how hard you try.