So Should A Guy Make An Effort To Learn "Pickup Lines," Or Does That Stuff Not Really Work When It Comes To Meeting Women?

Many guys put too much emphasis on learning "lines" and "techniques" when they are first starting down the path to success with women.

Lines and techniques can be helpful when you're first starting out... and some of them work pretty damn well!

But the truth is you won't achieve the massive success you desire until it comes from inside of you.

I've begun to see a pattern that almost all guys go through when learning this stuff:

Stage 1: Uses the lines and techniques he learns to "get out there" and get started. Experiences some success, and learns a lot.

Stage 2: Internalizes the right attitudes and beliefs, and starts to experience "natural success." Uses lines every once in a while, but doesn't rely on them.

Stage 3: Learns to attract women naturally and effortlessly. Makes up his own lines and techniques as he goes.

Keep this in mind, and use the lines and techniques you learn as "training wheels" to help take you to where you want to be… but make your ultimate goal to become a guy who "naturally" attracts women.
What's The Right Attitude To Have When You Are Meeting A Woman?

You should be totally detached from the "outcome" of any situation with a woman.

What that means is that no matter what she says or does, your life goes on the same way.

If a woman rejects you, it is no big deal.

If a woman goes home with you, it is also no big deal.

Try to become the guy who doesn't care either way. This attitude of indifference is magnetically attractive to women.

They can sense it the moment they start talking to a man.

But this isn't a way you can "act" or something you can say. It has to come from inside of you.

Make it a point to avoid the "scarcity" way of thinking at all costs.

Stay committed to your overall goal of success with women, but don't worry about success with any one woman.

There will always be another. Always.

Find out how to get inside a woman's head and how your circle of friends affects your pickup success rate.

How Can A Guy Learn More About How Women Think And What Turns Them On?

Well, it ain't easy. But here is something that might shed some light: Read a women's romance novel.

That's right.

You can grab one at any bookstore, and while it might be a bit embarrassing to walk over to the cashier with one, it'll be worth it.

When you first start reading it, you'll probably feel like you are reading something written in a different language.

And actually, you're partially right. But remember: These things sell like crazy. Women get addicted to them.

And you can learn a lot from them about how women think, and more importantly, what turns them on.

When you read one, note how much more time is spent describing the guy's moods and attitudes than his appearance.
When You Go Out To A Bar To Meet Women, How Important Are The Buddies You Bring?

Well here's a hint: Women will judge you by the quality and quantity of your friends.

Women are attracted to men that other men are friends with and especially men that have the respect of other men. If you have cool, "high-value" friends that respect you, women will definitely take notice.

It's very important to learn to interact with other men -- especially with other dominant or "alpha" men.

You can't be insecure or weak around these kinds of guys. If you don't hold your ground, you're going to lose some major points.

I'm not saying you should start fights or go out of your way to cause trouble. It's far better just to show that you are equal to the guys you meet and earn their respect.

And don't forget... women also judge you on how you interact with other men outside of your circle of friends -- from the waiter at the restaurant to her boss at a party.

So make sure to show her that you are a classy gentleman that can hold his own. This is a great opportunity to win some easy points... use it!