What kinds of things should a man talk about when he first meets a woman?
It sounds to me like you're assuming that you should have a fairly in-depth conversation when you first meet a woman. I think that most guys have a fear of approaching women because they don't really know what to say, or where to take the conversation.
I know that was a big one for me when I first wanted to learn this stuff.
But here's what I learned: You don't have to have a "conversation" at all when you first meet a woman. All you have to do is get her digits!
Now, there's a lot more to success with women than just getting numbers. But for the sake of this argument, let's just say that all you really need to be concerned with when you're first meeting a woman is getting her e-mail and phone number.
Yep, that's it.
And you can do that in a few minutes, if you know what to do and how to do it. I've had many friends of mine go out with me and watch me get more than five numbers in an evening from women, and only talk to them for a few minutes each to do it.
And I'll tell you what... it changes their perspectives forever.
Long conversations are not a prerequisite for getting a phone number, e-mail address or future date.
How to learn from guys who have the right moves with the ladies, and how to avoid freezing up while picking up.
You Mentioned In The Past That Men Should Find Other Guys Who Are Good With Women And Learn From Them. How Should A Guy Go About Doing This?
I think it's a good idea to go out once in a while to the local hotspots and watch what's going on. Specifically, I think it's a great idea to look for beautiful women who are with guys, and watch how the guy is behaving.
Also, it's interesting to watch guys picking women up to see what they're doing. You'll learn a few really important things firsthand when you do this:
You'll see the
body language of guys who are able to attract and keep women.
You'll see the gestures and hear the tone of voice of guys who are approaching women, and see how the women respond.
Invariably, you'll see some guys who are really good with women, and you can make friends with them. It's easy. Just say, "Hey, you are the mack with the babes. Let me buy you a beer. I need you to tell me a few things." A beer is a cheap price to pay for wisdom.
How Can A Guy Prevent From "Freezing Up" When He Is Flirting With A Woman?
My advice here is for men to plan a few things to say back to women. Here, I'll get you started with a few ideas...
"You love me."
"This relationship isn't going to work."
"Don't turn into a stalker, okay?"
There's a list of three to get you going.
The magical thing about these types of responses is that they can be used in almost any situation.
Let's say you're teasing a girl, and she's laughing and hitting you. You look at her with a serious face and say, "You love me."
Perfect. Or you could use one of the other "standards" I've listed above.
The point is that you need to have a few standard things to say in any situation. Practice the above three until you can use them. Then take a few minutes and dedicate that genius mind of yours to coming up with a few more.
Next thing you know, you'll actually be saying something back in these situations.
Remember: The point isn't to have something cute to say to women, the point is to get her e-mail/number, etc. So don't worry about being too cute. Just worry about getting to the next step.
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