Does a man have to be physically attractive in order to land a physically attractive woman?

There's no doubt in my mind that looking good will help you meet women. But there's also no doubt in my mind that it's far from everything... and, in fact, most of the guys I know who are very successful with women are closer to "average" than they are to "model handsome."

As far as a woman's looks go, when a guy starts experiencing a lot of success with women, he usually begins to realize a few things:

Just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean that she has her life together, that she's emotionally stable, that she will be interesting and fun to spend time with, etc.


The more women you meet, the more
picky you become.

A fantastic woman that really has all areas of her life together is
very rare.

Finding one of these rare, wonderful women often takes a while.


The fact is that men and women both tend to put their best foot forward in the beginning and only demonstrate their positive sides.

If you really want to learn how to figure out what a woman is really like when you first meet her, then you'll probably want to start studying psychology, behavior and communication in depth.

Also, the more you approach and meet women, the faster you'll be able to put the puzzle together in the beginning.

Do you have any advice for a guy on where to find a really awesome woman for a long-term relationship?

You know, I personally believe that most guys actually want to find a really awesome woman eventually.

But the fact is that you're going to have to date a lot of women to find that one really amazing one.

And I think that learning my techniques and using them with the women you're dating prepares you for that one special woman, once you find her.

So where is the secret "Amazing Chick" playground?

Where can a mellow guy go to find this untapped resource?

Find out where the hot ones are hiding..


I have a few ideas for you:

1- The Internet
2- Social gatherings
3- Unexpected "regular" places

1- The Internet
The Internet is amazing for mellow guys.

Just think of it.

You can place a personal ad, watch how women respond to it, then tweak it up and watch how the changes improve the responses you receive, and do it again and again.

It takes a little bit of work, but I can't think of a better return on a few hours' investment.

By the way, check out my Advanced Dating Techniques program for more tips on meeting women online. I do a whole segment on the topic, and I also interview one of my good friends who originally taught me how to meet women online.

I met my last girlfriend online, and she was a stunning 5'10" high-fashion model. My Advanced Series goes into all the details of how to do it.

The Internet is just getting better and better for meeting women. Try it.

2- Social gatherings
It's not hard to make friends. And if you make friends with the right people, you will be invited to all kinds of interesting social gatherings.

Now, certain social groups tend to attract more cute women than others.

I don't recommend the Star Trek, Comic Book or Chess conventions as starting points here.

Get into art. Try yoga. Or take an acting class.

Meet people. Invite the people you meet to other events that they would be interested in. Become a networker. Be the source for great information on a topic that attractive women are also interested in.

Again, this takes a little investment, but the rewards are often amazing.

I can't express how well this works, so simply try it.

3- Unexpected "regular" places
Okay, check this out: There is a big health food market that's pretty close to my place.

I went there about two weekends ago. I'd say that I saw a total of about 20 people during my visit. At least five of them were hot women.

I probably saw more beautiful women in that one store in 10 minutes than I saw in the next two days.

There are quite a few "unexpected regular places" like this one that are hot woman magnets.

How do you find them?

You have to go look.

Go to your local mall at three different times over the next week. Go in for 30 minutes each time and just walk around.

Try noon on a Monday, then try Saturday at 4 p.m., then try another weekday in the evening. You'll notice that one of those times is a lot better than the others.

Then try other places, and pay attention.

There's a busy shopping area near where I live. It's really busy on Friday and Saturday evenings. During the weekdays at around noon, it's about one-fifth as busy as it is on a Friday or Saturday night.

But guess what?

Weekday afternoons, even though it's not as busy, it's jam-packed with beautiful women.

They're everywhere.

But on Friday and Saturday nights, there are hardly any attractive women. Even though it's far busier and there are far more people around, there aren't very many attractive women.

Go figure.

My point: You need to find those places near you that are the best, and you need to find the best times as well.

This will pay off big time. So do it.