When A Guy First Meets A Woman, What Kind Of Things Should He Talk About?
Most guys assume that you should have a fairly in-depth conversation when you first meet a woman.

Not true.

Most guys have a fear of approaching women because they’re afraid they’ll run out of things to say or they won’t know where to take the conversation.

I know that was a big one for me when I first wanted to learn this stuff. But here's what I've learned: You don’t have to have a full-blown conversation at all when you first meet a woman -- all you have to do is get her digits.

In my book, I teach you how to get a woman's e-mail and phone number in about three minutes.

That’s right, three minutes.

Of course, there's a lot more to success with women than just getting numbers. But for the sake of this argument, let's just say that all you really need to be concerned with in your initial approach is getting her e-mail or phone number.

And you can do that in a few minutes, if you know what to do and how to do it.

I've had MANY friends go out with me and watch me get MANY numbers in an evening from women after only talking to them for a few minutes each, and it changes their perspectives forever.

Forget about having a “real” conversation; get her number or her e-mail address, then get out of there.
How Long Should A Guy Keep Up The Cocky & Funny Routine?
One thing I’ve learned in life is: If something is working, KEEP DOING IT.

Most guys fall into the pattern of doing what it takes to get things working, and as soon as they get some success, they stop doing the things that caused it.

Doesn’t make sense, does it?

Now, you can reach a point where you actually overdo Cocky & Funny.

How?

If you use it so much that it becomes boring and predictable, then you’re going to bore her -- and that’s what Cocky & Funny is supposed to help you avoid.

So if she’s not laughing and punching you as much as she used to, lay off the Cocky & Funny for a bit. Come back to it later when she least expects it, and you’ll be giving her exactly what she deeply desires: an unpredictable guy that she can’t pigeonhole.

What she can tell just by looking at you…
My Friends Say That A Woman Can Tell When A Man Is “Needy” Or “Desperate.” Is That True?
Women have finely tuned radars when it comes to picking up on “needy” and “desperate” men.

Desperation comes across in all kinds of subtle ways, from how you talk to a woman to the eye contact that you make to how often you call her.

But the real way men telegraph neediness is through BODY LANGUAGE.

Women are approximately 10 times better at reading body language than men. Your body language says everything about you to a woman, so if you want to get better at attracting women, start paying attention to it and taking control of it.

Here’s a couple of things to get you started:

Lean back, not forward: Leaning forward is a needy signal, while leaning back is a signal of strength.

Slow down your movements: Fast movements convey nervousness and skittishness; slow movements convey self-control and strength.

Take some time to watch the body language of guys who are successful with
women; pay attention to the details. Even though something doesn't SEEM like it's important, it probably is.

I have a good friend who holds his drink a certain way when he's talking to a woman that he's interested in. He does it almost every time -- and it works.

Find guys to model yourself after, and experiment until you find “moves” that work for YOU.
Reader’s Question
I would love to say how great your stuff works, but I haven't had much luck with it as of yet. I have seen it put to good use though. My bro does the whole Cocky & Funny routine naturally and I see all of its power. Most of the time I was Mr. Nice Guy and, of course, it didn't work as much as I would have liked.

My problem is that I'm missing the key ingredient to your ”super recipe”: funny. The way I see it, cocky is like garlic: By itself, it is repulsive and disgusting, but when used as a seasoning to another main dish (funny), it can do wonders. I'm missing the main dish. Anyone can be cocky, but I lack in the funny department. So where do I start to fix this?

P in NJ
My Answer
Humor has a structure, and it can be learned.

Some people seem to have an easier time learning how to be funny, but I've seen some not-too-funny people become VERY funny with practice.

Read some books, watch Comedy Central and practice. Start a journal and write down funny lines you hear so you can use them later.

Get with your brother and watch him. Ask him for advice and ideas. Practice. You can learn how to be funny and it's important that you do if you want to attract women.