What should guys say to a woman to make her theirs?
I was just talking last night about this exact dynamic.

The research I read says that about 7% of your communication is the words you use, and the other 93% is your voice tone and body language.

Of course, what do most guys want to learn first? Exactly, the words.

Paying attention only to the words causes you to miss out on the most powerful ways to attract women.

How you say the words is far more important than the actual words.

Is there a surefire way a guy can tell if a woman is into him?
Yes, it's very simple. I call it The Kiss Test.

You can see it on the second page of my main website, or read about it in my book.

You need to take things to the next level physically. This will tell you everything you need to know instantly.

And by the way, if a woman agrees to spend time alone with you and she seems to be having a good time, then she's probably interested at some level.

If you're using the materials and being Cocky and Funny, and she's hitting on you, laughing, etc., that's also a very good sign.

But use The Kiss Test. It's simple and easy, and it works so well.



What to do if she's not responding.

You often talk about how a "Cocky and Funny" attitude is very attractive to women. Shouldn't guys worry about coming off as too arrogant?
This is a great question.

Often, when you're first learning how to use the Cocky and Funny attitude, you'll go overboard and make the mistake of saying something that's purely arrogant, but not funny.

No problem. You have a few choices:

1- Say something afterward that's funny, which makes the original comment funny.
2- Say, "Oh, I'm just teasing," or give her a sly smile to let her know you were kidding.
3- Laugh at your own comment to signal that it was a joke, and not to be taken seriously.

Of course, you don't want to tell a woman that you're just teasing or laugh at your own comments too often, because you'll look like a schmuck if you do.

The key to recovering is not letting the fact that you went overboard throw you off.

If she gets a little upset, just be cool and calm about the situation, and get back on track with more humor.

And don't worry about it. You're learning a skill that will increase your success with women forever, so it's okay to make a few mistakes here and there while you're learning.

What do you say to guys who have been pursuing a woman for a long time and it doesn't seem to be going anywhere?
Well, the first thing you need to do is: Don't get hung up on any one particular situation or girl .

There's an interesting paradox that I keep seeing. Guys write me all the time: "I met 10 women last week, but one of them won't call me back, how do I get her?"

This kind of thinking is a total waste of your time.

If a woman isn't responding to you, move on. There are plenty of opportunities to meet women all around you.