Do You Think It's Okay For A Guy To Learn "Techniques" To Meet Women? Shouldn't Guys Just "Be Themselves"?

The fact is that my materials are all about teaching men to act more authentic, not less authentic.

Sure, I teach "techniques" to use. Sure, I teach how to talk to women and what to say.

But remember: There was a time when you didn't know how to kiss a woman, but now you do.

How is that possible?

No, it wasn't from kissing your mom (at least, I hope not). It was because you learned how.

I could say to you, "Well, you're not being yourself when you kiss women," because you're doing something that you learned how to do.

Or I could say, "You had to learn how to kiss a woman first, but now that you know how, you can just do it, and be yourself when you do."

My materials are the same deal.

Once you learn them, you realize that they're the "natural" thing to do. This is the stuff that the "naturals" -- the guys who are "naturally successful" with women -- do.

That's where I learned most of it!
Is There A Way A Guy Can Keep A Relationship Casual Without Leading A Woman On And Making Her Want More?

The issue here is an emotional one.

If you do certain things and communicate in a certain way, you will trigger attraction in a woman.

If you trigger attraction, you will be far more likely to be in control of the situation (and more likely to be successful with women in general).

How to avoid triggering feelings of love in a woman and how to act like a man...

Now, just like you can trigger that amazing emotion called attraction with your communication and body language, you can also trigger other emotions as well.

And one of these emotions, for lack of a better term, is called love.

Now, I don't want to get into a philosophical discussion of what "love" is, and how long it takes to feel "true love" for another person...

But I will say that the "beginnings" of love can be observed and described.

Have you seen any episodes of this bizarre TV show called The Bachelor?

You'll notice that several of the women have said things like "I am starting to have feelings for him." When they say this, they're talking about something other than just attraction.

In a nutshell, I'll just say that if you act like a guy who wants a woman to love you, then it will often happen.

This includes:
Calling and seeing her too often
Acting like a "boyfriend"
"Courting" a woman actively
If you don't want a woman to get those "feelings," then don't call or see her more than once or twice a week.

Don't act like her boyfriend. And don't "court" her.

There's nothing wrong with going out with a woman a few times, then not wanting to see her again.

The problems come when you act like you want something more from a woman, and then she starts to see you in a different way and have feelings for you.

There's something called an "implied social contract." This is when you do something in a way that "implies" something.

If you do things that imply that you want to be her boyfriend or husband (like calling and seeing her all the time, paying tons of attention to her, courting her, etc.), then you are implying that you want her to have feelings for you. And she will.

Solve this problem before it happens. Don't imply.
You've Mentioned Before That A Guy Needs To "Act Like A Man" In Order To Attract Women. Can You Give Us Some Examples?

Ways to act like a man include (but are not limited to):
1- Holding yourself upright, chest held high.
2- Acting like a leader, not a follower.
3- Not looking to others for approval and attention.
4- Demonstrating that you are in control of yourself and your surroundings.