How Can A Guy With A "Boring" Lifestyle Become More Attractive To Women?


The single most important thing you can do in your life -- both for yourself and when it comes to attracting women -- is to become an interesting guy.

The easiest way to do this is to "err on the side of action." What that means is to take advantage of every opportunity that comes your way.

If you come to a fork in the road, take it. If you are deciding whether or not to take a trip, go! Deciding whether to eat somewhere new or go to your same old favorite spot? Try something new!

The more you do this, the more you will enrich your life with experiences... and gain wisdom and knowledge that will make women want to know more about you.

And the more experiences you have, the more interesting things you will have to talk about with women... and the more likely you will be to relate to something they have done.

For example, when she says, "That reminds me of a place in Europe," you can say, "Oh yeah... I know what you mean."

When she tells you she loves Greek food, you can tell her about that wonderful little place you discovered that day when you decided to drive past your favorite spot and find something new.

Remember; we never regret the things we do -- only the things we haven't done. Start to live this every single day, and you'll be amazed at just how quickly women notice.

You've Mentioned In The Past That A Man Needs To Be A "Leader" When He Is With A Woman In Order To Create Attraction. How Important Is This?


Well, think about it this way: Women hate to make decisions.

You know how they say that women constantly change their minds about everything? Well, it's absolutely true.

Women can make decisions, but they don't like to -- which is exactly why women love a man who is decisive.

How to show her you're a decisive man, and how to let her know you're the catch of the century...

Decisiveness is a predominantly male trait. And to a woman, there is nothing more manly than a guy who knows what he wants, and is confident enough to be a man and lead her to do things and go places he knows are fun and exciting.

When a man does this, it gives her a sense of stability and security that she longs for, and puts her at ease by taking the burden of making a decision off her plate.

Unfortunately, many men are afraid to do this because they fear that a woman won't be happy with the decisions they make.

We've all made this mistake at one time or another, and gotten into one of those, "I don't know... what do you want to do?" conversations that women hate.

But in romance, as in dancing, a man must lead with a firm and gentle hand. Remember this every time you are talking to a woman from now on.

If you're going somewhere to eat, tell her you know of a great such and such restaurant. If she objects, don't say, "Well where do you want to go?", simply suggest another one.

Your decisiveness -- which translates into "manliness" -- plays a huge role in whether or not she decides to sleep with you.

So give her what she wants by gently leading her where you want. She'll thank you for it.

How Can A Guy Let A Woman Know He Is A "Catch" When He Meets Her?


One of the biggest differences between guys who are really successful with women and guys who are just moderately successful is that the pros are always willing to "walk away."

People don't value what they don't have to work for, and if a woman knows that you will be around and willing no matter what she does, then she has the power and control.

This "exchange of power" starts from the moment you meet a woman.

A woman can tell as soon as you walk up to her whether you "care" or not if it goes well.

If she can sense that you "only have eyes for her," she won't have any reason to try to impress you, because she knows that you have already made up your mind about her.

On the other hand, if she senses that you are just out having fun and will leave in an instant if she says or does something you don't agree with, she will be on her best behavior to try and impress you and keep you around.

It's ironic in how it works, but it's absolutely true.

So the key here is to avoid the "scarcity" mindset at all costs.

Know that there is always another hot woman waiting around the corner, and be selective when deciding to stick with the one you're with, or move on.

When you really internalize the attitude that you are the selector, it will come across in everything you do and cause every woman you meet to work to hold your attention.