That were here today
Latest News
Powered by Blogger.
Popular Posts
-
How many times has someone told you to “just be yourself” in order to attract women? It sounds like “mom advice,” but this way of thinki...
-
Are you confident that you know your girlfriend? How confident are you? If you spend a few nights together a week and have been dating on a...
-
Generosity for the win: Focusing on what she craves in the sack also increases your arousal, says new research in the journal Social Psychol...
-
Much of the resistance most people trying to get their ex back encounter, or the pulling away they experience from their ex comes from bad t...
-
Hey T, I reconnected with Chantelle, who I was friends with in college, this past summer at an alumni function, and I could instantly feel ...
-
Congratulations. Your relationship has lasted six months. Give yourself a pound player. Before you put the champagne on ice and pop the cor...
-
What Should A Guy Do When A Woman Stops Returning His Calls? Keep Calling? A lot of women have been taught that the way to “hook” a man is ...
-
Have you ever had sex with a woman who blew your mind with her beauty, sexiness and skills in the bedroom? Likewise, have you ever had s...
-
Can you say, "biologically predisposed"? It's true, guys; the verdict is in, and it turns out that we are instinctively the h...
-
Oct. 2, 2013 — New research by Albright College associate professor of psychology Susan Hughes, Ph.D., has found that men and women alter ...
About Us
- The Contemporary Man/ T. Miller
- At The Contemporary Man's, we guarantee that you will succeed with women and get the results you want from your dating life when you use our proven system for success with women called 'Dating Power'. You simply cannot fail when you use our tested techniques for success with women. We have spent the last 5 years testing and refining our method for success with women by: Approaching, dating and being in relationships with modern women ourselves. Coaching over 650 guys in person and literally showing them how to approach and pick up women using our natural style. Testing our techniques in all sorts of social environments, including parties, workplaces, nightclubs, cafes, shopping malls and bookstores to name a few. Interviewing women from around the world and asking for their opinions on the modern dating and relationship scene. Researching all available studies, published documentation and theories in this field. Following up with guys that we'd coached to find out if they needed more advice as they become more successful with women. We then included the advanced advice in our products.
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
She Wants To Be Friends & More
What Should You Do If You Get A Woman’s Number And When You Get Her On The Line She Says She’ll Meet You, But Only As “Friends”?
Here's a rule of thumb for you:
If you start hearing things like, "I just want to be friends" or "I'm kind of seeing someone right now" when you call women on the phone, it probably means that you're doing something when you FIRST MEET these women that is causing them to see you as a "nice guy friend" type.
You're probably not using what you've learned to create what is known as "sexual tension" and ATTRACTION.
Using the Cocky & Funny material early on is good place to start because it does create this tension and attraction from the outset.
I also suggest getting E-MAILS and not just numbers. In my experience, women tend to respond better to e-mails.
Some women act a little scared or even outright uninterested when they get approached.
It is VERY important not to let a woman's initial resistance throw you off and cause you to quit. Often, a woman just wants to talk to you a little more and get to know you a little better before she gives out her info.
The more you interact with women, the better you'll get at creating a comfortable mood that will lead to them giving you their contact info quickly.
What Should You Do When A Woman Doesn’t Get Your Sense Of Humor?
You just have to accept the idea that as you’re learning to develop a new and interesting side of your personality, you're going to occasionally run into a woman who doesn't get your humor.
Don't worry about it.
Here are my personal ways to disarm one of these situations:
1- Say, "It was a joke" with a deadpan serious look on your face.
Saying it was a joke in this manner is very funny all by itself because your serious look contradicts the words. This will often get a laugh and allow you to continue with the line of Cocky & Funny humor you were using in the first place.
More ways to make her smile2- Give her a "sly smile."
The sly smile is a great way to interrupt a woman who is taking you too seriously. As she starts to get upset, just squint your eyes a little, purse your lips and smile with a look that says: "You're cute when you're mad."
3- Start laughing.
This is another personal favorite. Just start laughing as she starts to get offended. Even tell her that she's cute and needs to lighten up a little.
All of these work well when women are GENUINELY offended or upset because they communicate that you were kidding around.
But, here's a warning: Don't use these TOO much. If you use them when she's not actually offended, they'll make you look weak and insecure.
In general, women love to play like they're offended when you tease them.
For instance, a woman might open her mouth with that “I can't believe you just said that” look. This is usually the signal to TURN IT UP! Keep going. Most women know you're just flirting with them, so don't turn into a WUSSY at the first sign of emotion.
Here's a rule of thumb for you:
If you start hearing things like, "I just want to be friends" or "I'm kind of seeing someone right now" when you call women on the phone, it probably means that you're doing something when you FIRST MEET these women that is causing them to see you as a "nice guy friend" type.
You're probably not using what you've learned to create what is known as "sexual tension" and ATTRACTION.
Using the Cocky & Funny material early on is good place to start because it does create this tension and attraction from the outset.
I also suggest getting E-MAILS and not just numbers. In my experience, women tend to respond better to e-mails.
Some women act a little scared or even outright uninterested when they get approached.
It is VERY important not to let a woman's initial resistance throw you off and cause you to quit. Often, a woman just wants to talk to you a little more and get to know you a little better before she gives out her info.
The more you interact with women, the better you'll get at creating a comfortable mood that will lead to them giving you their contact info quickly.
What Should You Do When A Woman Doesn’t Get Your Sense Of Humor?
You just have to accept the idea that as you’re learning to develop a new and interesting side of your personality, you're going to occasionally run into a woman who doesn't get your humor.
Don't worry about it.
Here are my personal ways to disarm one of these situations:
1- Say, "It was a joke" with a deadpan serious look on your face.
Saying it was a joke in this manner is very funny all by itself because your serious look contradicts the words. This will often get a laugh and allow you to continue with the line of Cocky & Funny humor you were using in the first place.
More ways to make her smile2- Give her a "sly smile."
The sly smile is a great way to interrupt a woman who is taking you too seriously. As she starts to get upset, just squint your eyes a little, purse your lips and smile with a look that says: "You're cute when you're mad."
3- Start laughing.
This is another personal favorite. Just start laughing as she starts to get offended. Even tell her that she's cute and needs to lighten up a little.
All of these work well when women are GENUINELY offended or upset because they communicate that you were kidding around.
But, here's a warning: Don't use these TOO much. If you use them when she's not actually offended, they'll make you look weak and insecure.
In general, women love to play like they're offended when you tease them.
For instance, a woman might open her mouth with that “I can't believe you just said that” look. This is usually the signal to TURN IT UP! Keep going. Most women know you're just flirting with them, so don't turn into a WUSSY at the first sign of emotion.
Labels:Adivce
Subscribe to:
Post Comments
(Atom)
Search
Categories
- A Man's Summerize Guide 2013 (6)
- Adivce (234)
- Advice (13)
- Ask T (12)
- Attracting Back Your Ex (6)
- Confidence (5)
- Contemporary Wisdom (10)
- Dating (44)
- Deception (17)
- Female Psychology (1)
- Flirting (1)
- In General (1)
- Jealousy’ (18)
- Mind Games (13)
- Moving on (7)
- On-and-Off Relationships’ (1)
- Online Dating (1)
- Quotes (1)
- Readers' Questions & Answers (34)
- Red Flags (6)
- Sex Tips. (57)
- Texting Women (1)
- The Contemporary Man (6)
- THE PICK UP: PICK UP LINES THAT WORK (4)
- The Real Reasons She's Still Single (2)
- Update (1)
- Work & Office Romance (2)
0 comments: