Better sex is -- obviously -- an improvement in the quality of sexual relations that you currently have. This could mean some sex period, sex in different ways or an improvement in the style and skill of you and/or your partner.

Better sex always means better communication with your partner. Yes, it involves talking. If you are not getting what you want, or feel you are not satisfying your partner adequately, it needs to be discussed in a non-threatening environment with trust and kindness.

However, you may be having great sex but want to better it. This is usually easier than if there are problems in the performance of either partner. Better sex in this case may mean trying new things and making more of what you’ve got at hand.
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Better sex can be achieved in many different ways. If you aren’t sure how to approach things with your partner, or feel shy about it, you will need to find a way that is suitable for you and your partner. The first step is to figure out what it is you want. Obviously every couple is different, and has unique personalities and communication styles. If it is easier for you to show your partner what you want done differently, then do it. You can guide your partner and make coy (or blatant) suggestions whilst in the middle of the lovemaking.

Or you can sit down with a bottle of something nice and do the "let’s talk about sex baby!" to have a reasonably honest -- and lighthearted -- talk session. You will probably find that you and your partner are not too far off, because if you aren’t getting what you want, then she probably isn’t either. If you go in with an open mind and attitude, you can avoid offense and make light of it -- and get what you want. Make it fun and laugh! Sex is not meant to be serious.

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People who can verbalize what they want, how they want it done and how often have a far better chance of actually getting it.