The women of  have spoken and you're freaking them out. Well, not all the time, just some of the time. A Reader asked women to post their "He is probably crazy" red flags when it comes to guys and the answers came in droves. Remember, early on in a relationship, women have their radar up for sketchy behavior. We know you're all reasonable guys, but sometimes even a reasonable guy can pull some crazy-guy moves in the throes of love. Here were the top 10 that stood out and gave a whole new meaning to the phrase "letting your freak flag fly."

The Proactive Jealous Type:

"Recently started talking to a new guy, I sent him a text saying I was going to go home and change and get my car and I would be over. And he flipped out saying "omg if it's such a chore then don't come out" followed by "you're probably stalling to fuck your ex" and then some other statements. Side note, we have been talking a week and never once have any of these problems arisen. So, yeah, red flag that he is probably crazy." - yambercork

The Surrogate Son:
"He still lives with -MY- parents 10 years after I divorced him." - rakshala

The Not-So-Subtle Freeloader:
"He asked me to make a minimum payment on his cc statement. Finances had been rough that month. We had went on about three dates. I was 20. He was 30. Wtf. Nope." - itson_thefritz

The Possessive Type:
"When he wouldn't let me wear shorts because "noone should able able to see that but me". Sadly this didn't actually strike me as crazy/posessive until after the relationship ended." - Lyndbergh

The Creep-By-Suggestion:
"I was with a bunch of friends at a bar getting drunk and towards the end of the night everyone left [ex]cept one of their friends I had just met that night. He ordered us another drink and I reluctantly stayed. Then he asked me to come back to his home and I told him no. He asked over and over again and then started saying 'It's not like I'm going to rape you' He said this over and over and I got the fuck out and left." - september79

The Overly Eager:
"When guys talk about a future with me on first or second dates. It's happened several times now. I'll casually mention I want to move to NYC one day and they'll make a frown and say, 'awh, but I don't want to. Can't we move to X instead?' or talk about how cute our babies would be." - bubblegum-bitch

The Social Media Creep:
"How about the guy the that I met once who I vaguely told the area/suburbs where I lived and worked, then next time I mentioned I was going out (via facebook) told me that I should stay at his house because he googled it and it was probably closer to my work. Ummm... Wtf??" - lanakane26

The Sensitive Nose:
"Had a guy get upset because I wore perfume to work once. He was all pouty about it and I asked what his problem was. He had some fucked up theory that happy women in relationships don't wear perfume since it's something we use to attract men. 'With the pheromones they put in that shit, that's the only thing it's for! You can't lie to me, you're going to cheat on me.' " - imnotacrazyperson

The Sweet Talker:
"If we just started texting and hanging out and he starts calling me 'babe', 'honey','sweetheart' or anything like that. It['s] like weird forced intimacy, and it makes me super uncomfortable." - g_rapelemonade

The Stubborn Type:
"A guy who can't admit to ever being wrong about anything, even little things." - N3WPORT