The Vibration Station

How do men usually spend Saturday nights with their girlfriends? You probably rent movies, have regular weekend sex, and go to sleep right? Well, if this sounds familiar, and you'd like to add a little spice to your sex life, just get her a sex toy. Obviously, you can't just approach her with an electronic gizmo, and expect her to be an expert (or can you?). There are a few steps one must follow in order to convince her to use a vibrator.

Bring Up The Topic

The first step is to ask her what she thinks of sex shops and the products they sell. If she argues that everything surrounding sex shops is repulsive and targeted towards perverts, then proceed with caution. Always keep it objective, try to reason with her by bringing up positive ways that sex toys can enlighten sexual fantasies. She may just have a change of heart. Don't be obvious; build up the surprise gradually. A few days later, let her know about your fantasy.

Tell Her Your Fantasies

Think of it this way...if your girlfriend describes one of her fantasies to you, wouldn't you want to make it a reality for her? It is the same for her; she wants to fulfill your wildest fantasies. The point is, tell her you want to buy a vibrator, so that she can use it in front of you. You can approach her in the following ways:

"Honey, I want to buy you a sex toy." (Use a low, sweet voice) 

or

"Wouldn't it be fun to try something new?" (When she asks "what?", you introduce the idea of a sex toy.)

When She Says Yes

Here's where the fun begins. Visit a few sex shops together and select the electric dildo she finds cutest. Now that she has made her choice, it is time to test it out. Remember, her vagina is very delicate so take it slow. Start out with oral sex. This will help her relax, get her juices flowing, and allow the vibrator to penetrate smoothly. Gently give your "sex toy virgin" an experience she will never forget.

She will probably ask you for seconds. Make sure you do not make it a routine, always keep your sex life varied, and add excitement to it. You can easily do that with a little sex toy.