Being romantic is like many other things in life; some have the gift, while others need to work at it. Romanticism is not just an era during the 19th century -- it's also the oldest art of seduction.

This classic way of seducing women has surely proven to be effective, even if it may seem outdated. No matter what women say, they like a romantic guy who can plan a nice lovey-dovey evening.
Party Of Two
The idea in being romantic is to make a woman believe that, at a specific point in time, only she matters. Whether you wow her with a great massage or take her away with smooth music, the underlying purpose is to come out as the guy that cares .

I will take you through many methods of romance, from old clichés to the more modern techniques.
Limelight Love
What better way to show your woman you love her than with the old candle trick? Invite her over to your house and gently seduce her with dim lighting and suave manners.

Although men might think that candles are overrated and old school, a little candlelight always gets the job done. It's a great catalyst for a potentially great evening.
Like Music To My Ears
"That old song and dance" might just be your best bet. Some music should continuously be playing in the background. Remember that music is usually used as a rhythmic background "tempo" to keep things flowing. (If you know what I mean... and I think you do.)

On some occasions, though, music is used as a driving force to set the mood and the pace of how things are going to happen. Some smooth Sinatra tracks like "It Was A Very Good Year" and "My Way" are gentle tunes that will soften her up. On the other hand, some light, loungy house songs or drum 'n' bass music will also set the mood for a night of romance.

Here is a list of different albums that can help set the mood that you may be hoping for:

Frank Sinatra: 20 Classic Tracks
Ol' Blue Eyes will surely do the romancing for you, while you just go in for the kill.

George Michael: Ladies & Gentlemen, The Best of George Michael
Although his own sexual preference is "all over the place," he still charms the ladies
 with soothing vocals and melodies.

Dave Matthews Band: Crash
This blend of funky contemporary beats provides a fresh approach to this game we call love. Dave Matthews isn't known as the "make-out king" for nothing.

Sisqo: Unleash The Dragon
Aside from his summer hit "Thong Song," Sisqo's powerful vocals come nothing short for the ladies.

Toni Braxton: Secrets
A proven classic with the hit Unbreak My Heart , just let the music take care of business and few words will be needed to set the mood. Let Toni do the work for you.

If your woman is not impressed by romantic candle light and sexy music, then dig into your back pocket and pull out the big guns .


Chick Flick
Movies are also a great way to set the mood; be it a 1950's classic or the latest Julia Roberts flick, films work like a charm. Although both of you might not agree on which films you enjoy watching together, there are always a couple of movies that men wouldn't mind watching.

Although this does not imply that men actually want to see certain films, there are at least some that they can put up with. In case you are really stuck on ideas, I've put together a short list to keep in your emergency romance kit.

Pretty Woman
Even if it's just to look at Julia Roberts prance around in sexy apparel, it still beats many other chick flicks.

Where The Heart Is
A coming of age movie starring Ashley Judd and Natalie Portman. Enough said.

Hanging Up
A guide into women's minds at different points in their lives. Men can actually learn something from this film. Just in case you really don't like it, at least you get to see Meg Ryan and Lisa Kudrow.

For Love Of The Game
Starring Kevin Costner and Kelly Preston, it's actually a pretty good movie considering it combines two things that men love: women and baseball (and not specifically in that order).

The Story Of Us
A lovebird movie starring sexy Michelle Pfeiffer and Bruce Willis, who try to patch up their troubled marriage. This is exactly the kind of image you want your woman to have about you.
Smother Me With Love
Going beyond the call of duty with a massage, throw in your two cents and get things lubed up. Every woman enjoys a good massage in itself, but bring some massage oils into the picture and consider it a job well-done.

Treat her back, belly, shoulders, neck, thighs, legs, feet, and whatever else you can get your hands on, and go crazy. Discover her erogenous zones and remember to be gentle and attentive to every square inch of her welcoming body.
Smells Like Roses
The trick here is to find out what her favorite aromas are, and surprise her with them. Be subtle when finding out this kind of information; your objective is to surprise her.

Scented candles and oils are proven to have various physical effects on people, from a calming sensation to an aphrodisiacal response. Remember that although vanilla is an aphrodisiac of choice, you need to make sure your woman enjoys it.

Aromatherapy puts forth the belief that different scents create different reactions. While roses create a sense of vitality and well-being, lavender eases tension and feelings of depression.
Dip It In
Fondue is probably one of the most romantic foods for a couple. Dip fresh fruit into melted chocolate and feed it to each other. There isn't anything much more sensual and arousing than feeding a chocolate covered banana to your girl.

Spice up your sweet snack by respecting the tradition that says you must kiss your neighbor every time you drop some food into the fondue pot. Rules are rules, so they say.
Grapes Of Passion
Everyone knows the effect alcohol has on women. Exactly. And the best part of this is that women enjoy drinking, while it allows them to let their inhibitions dissipate. Whereas she was initially introverted about saying or doing something daring, after a couple of drinks, she will speak up and act according to her desires. So pop a cork and let the good times flow.

Show her that you can be the romantic man she fantasizes about, and you'll reap the rewards in every way possible.