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Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Find A Dating Mentor & More
You Say That One Of The Fastest Ways To Learn How To Succeed With Women And Dating Is To Learn From Men Who Are Already Great With Women. But How Do You Find Them?
Make it a point to go out to the hot spots in your area and simply WATCH what’s going on.
Look for the really attractive women who are with guys, and how the guys are BEHAVING.
It’s also a good idea to watch the guys who are picking up -- or TRYING to pick up -- women and see what they’re doing.
Pay attention to the body language of these guys, and see how women respond to them. Also watch the gestures, and if it’s not too loud, listen for the voice tone of these guys, and make a note if women are smiling and responding positively or if they’re looking for an escape route.
If you find some guys who seem to be getting great results from women, make friends with them. It’s easier than you think. Say, “You’re a stud with the ladies, my friend. Let me buy you a drink, I need to ask you a few things…” It’s not the most comfortable thing to do, but it’ll pay off in the long run, believe me.
Is It OK For A Guy To Start Buying A Woman Flowers And Doing Special Things For Her Once He Is In A Relationship With Her?
I try my best not to jump into the “relationship advice” arena, but here’s my two cents' worth:
Making the transition from “dating” to “relationship” can be tricky -- and many guys who do great with the dating phase start acting like Wussies once they get into a full-blown relationship.
The result? They get dumped, of course.
Now, there’s a lot to be said for being considerate and generous…
And after holding out and fighting your impulses to be nice during the dating phase, it’s TWICE as hard to hold back on doing things like buying flowers once you start to feel the comfort of being in an actual relationship -- especially when you’re with a special woman.
I get it.
Women in relationships love it when a man does something special for them, but if he goes overboard and does it TOO MUCH (if he continually buys her gifts, dinners, flowers, etc.) it KILLS THE ATTRACTION.
It’s much better to do just a few THOUGHTFUL things rather than a whole bunch of things that any other guy can do -- and things she’s probably had before.
Instead of buying expensive, thoughtless gifts, try staying home and cooking a meal for her, giving her a massage, and then eating dessert in bed.
That’s something that’ll make an IMPACT.
Stop being a Wussy…
(Repost)
ou Often Refer To Men As “Wussies.” What Exactly Does That Mean?
I can explain the concept of what a "Wussy" is quite easily.
If you say things like "whatever you want, dear," you're communicating like a Wussy.
If you don't know what a Wussy is, you probably are one.
Guys who aren't Wussies know what a Wussy is because they usually MAKE FUN OF THEM a lot.
I know, I know... I'm being harsh.
But I can be because I used to be a HUGE Wussy myself.
Man, did it SUCK.
I used to call women all the time, kiss up to them, give away my power to them, and do every other WUSS-ISH thing you could do.
In other words, I'm a real-life expert.
A Wussy is a guy who gives away his power to women, and behaves in a submissive way.
Don't do this.
Learn how to act in a way that makes women feel ATTRACTION for you instead. That’s the ticket.
Make it a point to go out to the hot spots in your area and simply WATCH what’s going on.
Look for the really attractive women who are with guys, and how the guys are BEHAVING.
It’s also a good idea to watch the guys who are picking up -- or TRYING to pick up -- women and see what they’re doing.
Pay attention to the body language of these guys, and see how women respond to them. Also watch the gestures, and if it’s not too loud, listen for the voice tone of these guys, and make a note if women are smiling and responding positively or if they’re looking for an escape route.
If you find some guys who seem to be getting great results from women, make friends with them. It’s easier than you think. Say, “You’re a stud with the ladies, my friend. Let me buy you a drink, I need to ask you a few things…” It’s not the most comfortable thing to do, but it’ll pay off in the long run, believe me.
Is It OK For A Guy To Start Buying A Woman Flowers And Doing Special Things For Her Once He Is In A Relationship With Her?
I try my best not to jump into the “relationship advice” arena, but here’s my two cents' worth:
Making the transition from “dating” to “relationship” can be tricky -- and many guys who do great with the dating phase start acting like Wussies once they get into a full-blown relationship.
The result? They get dumped, of course.
Now, there’s a lot to be said for being considerate and generous…
And after holding out and fighting your impulses to be nice during the dating phase, it’s TWICE as hard to hold back on doing things like buying flowers once you start to feel the comfort of being in an actual relationship -- especially when you’re with a special woman.
I get it.
Women in relationships love it when a man does something special for them, but if he goes overboard and does it TOO MUCH (if he continually buys her gifts, dinners, flowers, etc.) it KILLS THE ATTRACTION.
It’s much better to do just a few THOUGHTFUL things rather than a whole bunch of things that any other guy can do -- and things she’s probably had before.
Instead of buying expensive, thoughtless gifts, try staying home and cooking a meal for her, giving her a massage, and then eating dessert in bed.
That’s something that’ll make an IMPACT.
Stop being a Wussy…
(Repost)
ou Often Refer To Men As “Wussies.” What Exactly Does That Mean?
I can explain the concept of what a "Wussy" is quite easily.
If you say things like "whatever you want, dear," you're communicating like a Wussy.
If you don't know what a Wussy is, you probably are one.
Guys who aren't Wussies know what a Wussy is because they usually MAKE FUN OF THEM a lot.
I know, I know... I'm being harsh.
But I can be because I used to be a HUGE Wussy myself.
Man, did it SUCK.
I used to call women all the time, kiss up to them, give away my power to them, and do every other WUSS-ISH thing you could do.
In other words, I'm a real-life expert.
A Wussy is a guy who gives away his power to women, and behaves in a submissive way.
Don't do this.
Learn how to act in a way that makes women feel ATTRACTION for you instead. That’s the ticket.
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