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Monday, May 27, 2013
Body Language Advice, Women With A Price
So What Other Advice Do You Have On Body Language?
Here are some good things to do:
1- Hold yourself upright. Think of how you'd hold yourself if you were the most confident person in the world.
2- Move slowly. Gesture slowly. Speak slowly. Blink slowly. This communicates comfort and confidence.
3- Pause often. Only respond if you choose to. Remember: You don't need to react or respond to anything that you don't want to. Women often try to push you off balance. Don't fall for it. Stay cool, and pause if you need to in order to keep your composure.
Here are some bad things to avoid:
1- Talking too fast or too much. This communicates that you're nervous and sketchy (unless you're telling a really interesting story, or you have integrated fast talking into your personality in an interesting way, of course).
2- Making nervous gestures, laughs, tics, etc. I've met many guys who laugh nervously after just about everything they say. This is the death of attraction. It instantly communicates insecurity.
3- Breaking eye contact. At first, you need to maintain eye contact until she breaks it. This establishes at an unconscious level that you're not afraid.
I also recommend that you study the body language and composure of some of the world's most famous "ladies' men."
Watch Ocean's Eleven and pay attention to how Brad Pitt and George Clooney act in that movie. They are great models of attractive, composed body language.
Check out Gone With The Wind and watch how Rhett handles Scarlett. Awesome.
The more you pay attention, the more you'll learn and improve.
How to use online personal ads to meet women and the lowdown on women who are only after money..
Any Tips On Using The Online Personal Ads To Meet Women?
Sure. Here are three pointers that have taken me years to figure out:
1- You'll get more responses in general by replying to personal ads placed by women than you will by placing your own ad (unless you're a master of writing personal ads).
2- If you're going to use the personals, look at the new ads that are placed daily and respond as soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive women typically get 50 to 100 responses per day to personal ads, so it's very easy for them to get overwhelmed. You'll notice that a lot of women take their ads down after just a few days -- this is why.
3- Be charming and funny (also known as cocky and funny) in your replies (or in your ad, if you write your own). Say things like, "I was looking through all these ads here on the internet thinking to myself, 'Look at all the poor, desperate, lonely women...' and then I saw your ad and thought to myself, 'Hey, here's a poor, desperate, lonely woman that's actually cute ...' so I thought I'd write and see if you're as interesting on the inside as you are in this picture."
Also, I mentioned in one of my recent articles that I got an e-mail from a guy who had his picture taken with some dolphins, and that he's getting tons of responses from that. I've never done it myself, but it sounds like a great idea!
Do You Think That There Are Some Women Out There Who Are Only After Men For Their Money?
First of all, yes, there are women who will only talk to you if you have money.
But this is not the rule, it's the exception.
If a woman feels the magical emotion of attraction, then it matters not how much money you have. I used to believe that only guys who had nice cars and lots of cash got to go out with all the women.
But then, as I got to know more and more guys who were very successful with women, I realized that it came down to their personalities more than anything else, including looks, height, money, etc.
In fact, most of the guys I've met that are very successful with women aren't rich at all.
You need to learn how to make women feel attraction by using your personality. That's the ticket.
Really.
Here are some good things to do:
1- Hold yourself upright. Think of how you'd hold yourself if you were the most confident person in the world.
2- Move slowly. Gesture slowly. Speak slowly. Blink slowly. This communicates comfort and confidence.
3- Pause often. Only respond if you choose to. Remember: You don't need to react or respond to anything that you don't want to. Women often try to push you off balance. Don't fall for it. Stay cool, and pause if you need to in order to keep your composure.
Here are some bad things to avoid:
1- Talking too fast or too much. This communicates that you're nervous and sketchy (unless you're telling a really interesting story, or you have integrated fast talking into your personality in an interesting way, of course).
2- Making nervous gestures, laughs, tics, etc. I've met many guys who laugh nervously after just about everything they say. This is the death of attraction. It instantly communicates insecurity.
3- Breaking eye contact. At first, you need to maintain eye contact until she breaks it. This establishes at an unconscious level that you're not afraid.
I also recommend that you study the body language and composure of some of the world's most famous "ladies' men."
Watch Ocean's Eleven and pay attention to how Brad Pitt and George Clooney act in that movie. They are great models of attractive, composed body language.
Check out Gone With The Wind and watch how Rhett handles Scarlett. Awesome.
The more you pay attention, the more you'll learn and improve.
How to use online personal ads to meet women and the lowdown on women who are only after money..
Any Tips On Using The Online Personal Ads To Meet Women?
Sure. Here are three pointers that have taken me years to figure out:
1- You'll get more responses in general by replying to personal ads placed by women than you will by placing your own ad (unless you're a master of writing personal ads).
2- If you're going to use the personals, look at the new ads that are placed daily and respond as soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive women typically get 50 to 100 responses per day to personal ads, so it's very easy for them to get overwhelmed. You'll notice that a lot of women take their ads down after just a few days -- this is why.
3- Be charming and funny (also known as cocky and funny) in your replies (or in your ad, if you write your own). Say things like, "I was looking through all these ads here on the internet thinking to myself, 'Look at all the poor, desperate, lonely women...' and then I saw your ad and thought to myself, 'Hey, here's a poor, desperate, lonely woman that's actually cute ...' so I thought I'd write and see if you're as interesting on the inside as you are in this picture."
Also, I mentioned in one of my recent articles that I got an e-mail from a guy who had his picture taken with some dolphins, and that he's getting tons of responses from that. I've never done it myself, but it sounds like a great idea!
Do You Think That There Are Some Women Out There Who Are Only After Men For Their Money?
First of all, yes, there are women who will only talk to you if you have money.
But this is not the rule, it's the exception.
If a woman feels the magical emotion of attraction, then it matters not how much money you have. I used to believe that only guys who had nice cars and lots of cash got to go out with all the women.
But then, as I got to know more and more guys who were very successful with women, I realized that it came down to their personalities more than anything else, including looks, height, money, etc.
In fact, most of the guys I've met that are very successful with women aren't rich at all.
You need to learn how to make women feel attraction by using your personality. That's the ticket.
Really.
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