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Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Tips To Make Her Orgasm
I know you're looking for guaranteed methods that will make any woman you decide to woo orgasm, but that's not going to happen because all women are different and need different stimulation in order to get off.
Now don't let your ego cloud your brain; if she doesn't reach orgasm, that doesn't mean you're a horrible lover. It just means that you might have to try different methods to get to the big O.
And guys, don't pressure her and make her feel like she's letting you down if she doesn't orgasm every time you make love. Some days are better than others, so go with the flow and have yourself a good time. Otherwise she'll start faking it to please you and nobody wants that.
The Brain Factor
If she's comfortable with you, then that's a step in the right direction. If she's cool with walking around naked in front of you and discussing sex and what she likes, then orgasm is just a clitoral rub away.
Her brain is the focal point of her orgasm. If she is able to let go and embrace total abandon with you, then she can most definitely reach those heights of pleasure you're hoping for. And hey, it wouldn't hurt if you were physically fit, either.
If you have never discussed sex with her, now's the time to do so. Discuss what you enjoy doing to each other, what stimulates you, what you fantasize about.
And if she seems to back out of the room slowly after you make love, she's probably not feeling very secure about her body. Compliment parts of her body so that she knows you think she's hot.
Verbal Foreplay
When was the last time you called her up in the middle of the day to tell her that you can't wait to get home and lick her muffin? Well, start doing it. Her anticipation alone will make your touch feel that much more exaggerated.
Start seducing her without having to make love to her all the time. Anticipation can be one of the greatest aphrodisiacs. Grab her and give her a deep kiss for no reason. Talk about what you plan to do to her sexually when you take her out for dinner. These little things will keep her mind working when you're finally penetrating.
Of course, if you couple this with some physical magic, she'll be screaming out your name in delight in no time
Time to get down to the physical part...Physical Outpour
There are a whole lot of ways to bring your woman to indescribable heights of pleasure, but if you use "combination-elation" on her body, her chances of reaching such heights will increase tenfold.
Kiss mouth, rub body
Okay, this act might not serve to give her an orgasm directly, but her body will become more in tune and her excitement will hone her sexual senses, leading to bigger and better things.
Kiss her mouth softly, using your tongue to massage her lips and tongue. While you're doing that, use your hands to softly but firmly grasp her body and rub everything from her legs to her neck.
Purposely avoid touching her breasts and vagina because that's what she's expecting you to do. This will, in turn, serve to make her feel incredible when you do finally decide to touch her there, and there...
Nipples and fingers
To start, if your woman doesn't have sensitive nipples, then this probably won't work well for her. But if she does, then let's get started.
My woman loves it when I put her on top of me, suck one nipple, lightly pinch the other, and use the fingers on my other hand to stimulate her clitoris and vagina periodically. Go slowly, there's no need for speed, unless of course she starts begging you to go faster.
Of course, you can always use a little help to stimulate her.
Fingers and tongue
Get your head down to the area she loves having your mouth at, and start your tongue tricks. Lick around the entire scope of the vagina from the clitoris down to her perineum. When she's wet all over, insert two fingers into her vagina -- palm facing up -- and make a "come hither" motion. At the same time, stimulate her clitoris with your tongue. This way, you're stimulating both her clitoris and her G-spot. If she begins to moan and groan, keep the same pace, don't go faster.
Doggy, fingers, and the bonus tip that guarantees an orgasm... he doggy finger
If your woman hates the doggy position, then skip over this one. But for the rest of you, enjoy doggy style with your woman but with a twist. Whilst penetrating her, don't let anything except your penis touch her, from the inside of course.
Slowly ease your way in and out of her and as she enjoys the feeling, lick your finger (which has a very short nail and is clean) and rub her anus with it. If she reacts by moaning even louder, then slowly insert it into her anus only a little. Withdraw it completely and keep doing this (note: once you're done, do not put this finger in any other orifice).
The stimulation from both ends may very well bring her to ecstatic proportions.
Penetrate and rub
Sit on your knees, place a pillow under her lower back and penetrate her fully. Going all the way in and all the way out, use your moistened index and middle fingers to massage her clitoris at the same time.
To add more fun to the mix, encourage her to massage her clitoris with you. When she starts doing so, remove your hands and watch as she brings herself pleasure. This will likely bring you both to orgasm.
Bonus Tip
The vibrating penis
Have you ever heard that when a woman uses a vibrator, she's just about guaranteed an orgasm? Well, if a vibrator is coupled with the man that she desires, then her chances of achieving an orgasm are virtually 100%.
Again, sitting on your knees, penetrate her at a rhythmic pace and use a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. More likely than not, she will reach that peak point. And remember; a vibrator is not an attack on your manhood, sometimes certain women need that extra oomph to reach orgasmic heights.
Is She A Type Two?
There are two types of orgasm women can have: the clitoral and the G-spot, or uterine. So stimulating both parts of her body will double your chances of bringing her there.
And hey, if you're a really good boy, maybe she'll use it to stimulate your G-spot.
Until next time, talk about sex, enjoy her touch and give it to her like it might be the last time.
Now don't let your ego cloud your brain; if she doesn't reach orgasm, that doesn't mean you're a horrible lover. It just means that you might have to try different methods to get to the big O.
And guys, don't pressure her and make her feel like she's letting you down if she doesn't orgasm every time you make love. Some days are better than others, so go with the flow and have yourself a good time. Otherwise she'll start faking it to please you and nobody wants that.
The Brain Factor
If she's comfortable with you, then that's a step in the right direction. If she's cool with walking around naked in front of you and discussing sex and what she likes, then orgasm is just a clitoral rub away.
Her brain is the focal point of her orgasm. If she is able to let go and embrace total abandon with you, then she can most definitely reach those heights of pleasure you're hoping for. And hey, it wouldn't hurt if you were physically fit, either.
If you have never discussed sex with her, now's the time to do so. Discuss what you enjoy doing to each other, what stimulates you, what you fantasize about.
And if she seems to back out of the room slowly after you make love, she's probably not feeling very secure about her body. Compliment parts of her body so that she knows you think she's hot.
Verbal Foreplay
When was the last time you called her up in the middle of the day to tell her that you can't wait to get home and lick her muffin? Well, start doing it. Her anticipation alone will make your touch feel that much more exaggerated.
Start seducing her without having to make love to her all the time. Anticipation can be one of the greatest aphrodisiacs. Grab her and give her a deep kiss for no reason. Talk about what you plan to do to her sexually when you take her out for dinner. These little things will keep her mind working when you're finally penetrating.
Of course, if you couple this with some physical magic, she'll be screaming out your name in delight in no time
Time to get down to the physical part...Physical Outpour
There are a whole lot of ways to bring your woman to indescribable heights of pleasure, but if you use "combination-elation" on her body, her chances of reaching such heights will increase tenfold.
Kiss mouth, rub body
Okay, this act might not serve to give her an orgasm directly, but her body will become more in tune and her excitement will hone her sexual senses, leading to bigger and better things.
Kiss her mouth softly, using your tongue to massage her lips and tongue. While you're doing that, use your hands to softly but firmly grasp her body and rub everything from her legs to her neck.
Purposely avoid touching her breasts and vagina because that's what she's expecting you to do. This will, in turn, serve to make her feel incredible when you do finally decide to touch her there, and there...
Nipples and fingers
To start, if your woman doesn't have sensitive nipples, then this probably won't work well for her. But if she does, then let's get started.
My woman loves it when I put her on top of me, suck one nipple, lightly pinch the other, and use the fingers on my other hand to stimulate her clitoris and vagina periodically. Go slowly, there's no need for speed, unless of course she starts begging you to go faster.
Of course, you can always use a little help to stimulate her.
Fingers and tongue
Get your head down to the area she loves having your mouth at, and start your tongue tricks. Lick around the entire scope of the vagina from the clitoris down to her perineum. When she's wet all over, insert two fingers into her vagina -- palm facing up -- and make a "come hither" motion. At the same time, stimulate her clitoris with your tongue. This way, you're stimulating both her clitoris and her G-spot. If she begins to moan and groan, keep the same pace, don't go faster.
Doggy, fingers, and the bonus tip that guarantees an orgasm... he doggy finger
If your woman hates the doggy position, then skip over this one. But for the rest of you, enjoy doggy style with your woman but with a twist. Whilst penetrating her, don't let anything except your penis touch her, from the inside of course.
Slowly ease your way in and out of her and as she enjoys the feeling, lick your finger (which has a very short nail and is clean) and rub her anus with it. If she reacts by moaning even louder, then slowly insert it into her anus only a little. Withdraw it completely and keep doing this (note: once you're done, do not put this finger in any other orifice).
The stimulation from both ends may very well bring her to ecstatic proportions.
Penetrate and rub
Sit on your knees, place a pillow under her lower back and penetrate her fully. Going all the way in and all the way out, use your moistened index and middle fingers to massage her clitoris at the same time.
To add more fun to the mix, encourage her to massage her clitoris with you. When she starts doing so, remove your hands and watch as she brings herself pleasure. This will likely bring you both to orgasm.
Bonus Tip
The vibrating penis
Have you ever heard that when a woman uses a vibrator, she's just about guaranteed an orgasm? Well, if a vibrator is coupled with the man that she desires, then her chances of achieving an orgasm are virtually 100%.
Again, sitting on your knees, penetrate her at a rhythmic pace and use a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. More likely than not, she will reach that peak point. And remember; a vibrator is not an attack on your manhood, sometimes certain women need that extra oomph to reach orgasmic heights.
Is She A Type Two?
There are two types of orgasm women can have: the clitoral and the G-spot, or uterine. So stimulating both parts of her body will double your chances of bringing her there.
And hey, if you're a really good boy, maybe she'll use it to stimulate your G-spot.
Until next time, talk about sex, enjoy her touch and give it to her like it might be the last time.
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