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Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Competing For Women & More
What Should A Guy Do When Another Guy Is Competing For The Same Woman?
One of the ULTIMATE ways to handle situations like these is very simple: HAVE FUN.
The thing that really screws things up for most guys when this happens is letting it take them off balance... and screwing up their composure.
By laughing it off, or even making fun of the guys who are trying to make their move, you wind up coming off even MORE powerful.
Why Does A Woman Often Call A Man Out Of The Blue After Not Hearing From Him For Several Weeks?
There's something about walking away from a woman, not calling her, etc., that triggers some sort of mechanism that causes her to call at the most unlikely times.
My experience is that there's some kind of two- to four-week timer in a woman's head that goes off if she doesn't hear from you.
Again, I have no explanation for this particular bizarre pattern, but it has happened to me so many times that I can't believe it.
Women who have guys calling them day and night will be walking through their house one evening and all of a sudden think, "Where is that one guy? I have to call him... Why isn't he calling me?"
Of course, as this begins to happen, you can take this as a strong signal that you're beginning to REALLY get the ideas I talk about.
If I'm Talking To Two Women, And I Don't Know Which One I Like, What Should I Do? I Don't Want To Screw It Up And Offend One Of Them. And If It Doesn't Work Out With One Of Them, Would It Be Cool To Be Able To Switch To The Other? Which One Should I Get The E-Mail And Number From?"
BOTH, DUH.
The ultimate way to handle two or three or more women that are all beautiful and interesting is to say, "You know, you guys are EQUALLY DORKY, so instead of just rejecting all of you, I'll let you all give me your numbers, and maybe we can hang out sometime... and I can teach you how to be cool like me..."
When you just relax, have fun and approach the situation casually, you can walk away with ALL of the women's numbers.
And guess what?
Attractive women know OTHER attractive women. If it doesn't work out with one, she'll know 10 more.
Think big, act big and you'll reap big rewards.
An angry reader asks for help…First of all, let’s get things straight: I don't like you. In fact, I hate you. Your success with women disgusts me, and the way you have it down to a science so well makes ME laugh sometimes with your smart-assed comments to the lamers who write you. But it intrigues me as well. Your stuff works. So I use it. Doesn't mean I like you. Just means I like your "tools."
Anyway, the problem I'm having lately is I meet and flirt with a lot of women using Cocky & Funny, but when it comes time for things to get a little physical, they tell me they're waiting for marriage to do all that! Is there a way around this kind of a "defense" that women use on me so often (besides dumping their celibate asses)?
D., Buffalo, NY
My Answer
You know, this is just a guess, but maybe your challenges with women stem from the dark cloud around your SOUL!
...Ah-hem.
Dude, I can tell that you're attempting to be funny here, but it also sounds to me like you've got some anger issues that might need professional attention.
OK, the way to get around the "I'm waiting for marriage" defense is to stop acting like a bitter WUSSY.
If women consistently tell you, "I'm waiting for marriage before I get physical," it can only mean one of two things:
1- You're shopping for women at the convent.
2- You're CAUSING the resistance you're getting.
Most guys don't realize this, but THEY are the ones who cause women to resist and make excuses.
Really.
And by the way, don't EVER again say that you don't like me, but you like my TOOL. That's not cool.
One of the ULTIMATE ways to handle situations like these is very simple: HAVE FUN.
The thing that really screws things up for most guys when this happens is letting it take them off balance... and screwing up their composure.
By laughing it off, or even making fun of the guys who are trying to make their move, you wind up coming off even MORE powerful.
Why Does A Woman Often Call A Man Out Of The Blue After Not Hearing From Him For Several Weeks?
There's something about walking away from a woman, not calling her, etc., that triggers some sort of mechanism that causes her to call at the most unlikely times.
My experience is that there's some kind of two- to four-week timer in a woman's head that goes off if she doesn't hear from you.
Again, I have no explanation for this particular bizarre pattern, but it has happened to me so many times that I can't believe it.
Women who have guys calling them day and night will be walking through their house one evening and all of a sudden think, "Where is that one guy? I have to call him... Why isn't he calling me?"
Of course, as this begins to happen, you can take this as a strong signal that you're beginning to REALLY get the ideas I talk about.
If I'm Talking To Two Women, And I Don't Know Which One I Like, What Should I Do? I Don't Want To Screw It Up And Offend One Of Them. And If It Doesn't Work Out With One Of Them, Would It Be Cool To Be Able To Switch To The Other? Which One Should I Get The E-Mail And Number From?"
BOTH, DUH.
The ultimate way to handle two or three or more women that are all beautiful and interesting is to say, "You know, you guys are EQUALLY DORKY, so instead of just rejecting all of you, I'll let you all give me your numbers, and maybe we can hang out sometime... and I can teach you how to be cool like me..."
When you just relax, have fun and approach the situation casually, you can walk away with ALL of the women's numbers.
And guess what?
Attractive women know OTHER attractive women. If it doesn't work out with one, she'll know 10 more.
Think big, act big and you'll reap big rewards.
An angry reader asks for help…First of all, let’s get things straight: I don't like you. In fact, I hate you. Your success with women disgusts me, and the way you have it down to a science so well makes ME laugh sometimes with your smart-assed comments to the lamers who write you. But it intrigues me as well. Your stuff works. So I use it. Doesn't mean I like you. Just means I like your "tools."
Anyway, the problem I'm having lately is I meet and flirt with a lot of women using Cocky & Funny, but when it comes time for things to get a little physical, they tell me they're waiting for marriage to do all that! Is there a way around this kind of a "defense" that women use on me so often (besides dumping their celibate asses)?
D., Buffalo, NY
My Answer
You know, this is just a guess, but maybe your challenges with women stem from the dark cloud around your SOUL!
...Ah-hem.
Dude, I can tell that you're attempting to be funny here, but it also sounds to me like you've got some anger issues that might need professional attention.
OK, the way to get around the "I'm waiting for marriage" defense is to stop acting like a bitter WUSSY.
If women consistently tell you, "I'm waiting for marriage before I get physical," it can only mean one of two things:
1- You're shopping for women at the convent.
2- You're CAUSING the resistance you're getting.
Most guys don't realize this, but THEY are the ones who cause women to resist and make excuses.
Really.
And by the way, don't EVER again say that you don't like me, but you like my TOOL. That's not cool.
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