How Can A Guy Get A Woman To Give Up Her Phone Number To Him Quickly?

Easy.

1- Know exactly how you want the conversation to go.

2- Know how to ask.

3- Know when to ask.

4- Have a pen and paper on you.

I recommend that you take a few minutes every day to imagine having conversations with new women. It might go something like this:

"Hi there, you're cuter than the average woman that I see in the produce section... are you friendly?"

Her: "Ha ha... well, sometimes."

"So, are you shopping for a special occasion, or is this just a routine produce visit?"

Her: "No, just here for some fruit."

"Nice. Are you from the area?"

Her: "Yeah."

"Are you from here originally?"

Her: "Born and raised."

"Well, it was nice meeting you... and enjoy your mango..."

Her: "Thanks."

"Hey... do you have e-mail?"

Her: "Yeah, I do."

(Treat the "Yeah" as an agreement to give it to you, then take a pen out of your pocket -- I prefer the Space Pen -- and hand it to her to write down her e-mail. As she's writing, say "and write your number there too... and your name, which I didn't get...").

The key is that you have to act like this is the most natural thing in the world.

Okay, see how easy that was? Is that realistic? I think so. I've gotten hundreds of e-mails and phone numbers with dialogues like that.

I think the key is to mentally rephrase how you will handle yourself so you know exactly what to do when the time comes. It all has to flow and seem natural.

Find out what makes a guy annoying to women, whether you should start fights to enjoy the making up, and how to pursue a more serious relationship...Women Often Complain That A Guy Is "Annoying." What Do They Mean When They Say This?

A lot of young, hot women say that men are "annoying."

What they really mean is that men are boring and that they feel no attraction for them.

As strange as the truth is, attraction is not triggered by being a "nice" guy. Nice will never do it.

Of course, as you know, I never suggest that men act in an abusive way...

But if you want to get out of the "annoying" category, you must start behaving and communicating differently.

Predictability is annoying to women.

Being clingy is annoying to women.

Acting like a wussy is annoying to women.

Is It True That A Guy Should Start Fights With A Woman He Is Dating So They Can "Make Up" Later?

I don't recommend starting fights just so you can make up later.

I don't think that it's necessary to actually start serious conflicts with women.

While it does work in many cases to intensify a sexual attraction, it doesn't lead to long-term health.

What Should A Guy Do When He Meets A Woman He'd Like To Pursue A More "Serious" Relationship With?

The first thing you should do is lean back and give her space.

Most guys want to try and "corner the market" as quickly as they can when they meet a woman they like, and try to convince the woman to be exclusive immediately.

In my experience, this is a bad idea for a few reasons:

1- You don't know her very well yet. I make it a personal rule to not get into a "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship with a woman for at least 3 to 6 months. I want to get to know a woman before I'm interested in being attached.

I once met a really hot girl for a cup of tea and she told me that she likes to date a guy for a couple of weeks, then form a monogamous, long-term, boyfriend-and-girlfriend relationship with him, then sleep with him.

This was all at the first meeting I had with her over a cup of tea.

I told her that she was crazy, and that I'd never get into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with some woman that I'd only known for a couple of weeks... and then I left.

I had images of coming home in a few weeks and finding her going through my closets and saying, "Whose is this?"

Get to know a woman before you make your decision!

2- If a woman is the type that will get into a serious relationship with you quickly, then there's probably a good chance that she has some issues.

The last thing you need is a clingy woman who is out looking around for a man to complete her and give her life meaning...

So you're doing the right thing. Nice.

If you want to pursue a relationship, then you might want to actually start doing a sweet, romantic thing or two every once in awhile.

A card, a flower, etc. is all it takes to communicate your message. But use them wisely, and don't start acting like a needy wussy!

Also, when you start saying things like "I was thinking about you," "I really like spending time with you," and other lovey talk, it says the same thing.

Again, use sparingly... especially with independent women!

And ultimately, if you want to have a real, honest-to-goodness relationship, then tell her how you feel about her.

If you think she's worth having a relationship with, then you're going to need to take the risk at some point of telling her.