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Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Talking Is A Good Sign & More
How Can A Guy Tell If A Woman Is Interested In Him When He First Meets Her?
The main sign that a woman gives off is very simple to spot: she keeps talking to you .
If a woman isn't interested, she won't talk to you. She'll look around, act bored out of her skull, or move around in an uncomfortable manner.
The first minute or two is often like this anyway, as two people begin a conversation, but if it continues past three to five minutes, you need to move on and try to be a little less boring.
I knew you'd find my answer profound, but if you're still waiting for her to tilt her head, lick her lips, and twirl her hair, then you need to stop reading books published by guys that have nothing better to do than spend 25 years watching people in bars and writing down what they do.
It's simple:
1- Meet girl
2- Get e-mail and number
3- Invite for drink and stimulating conversation
4- Meet and tease, be cocky and funny
5- If she's not psycho, invite her over
6- Use The Kiss Test
7- Don't screw up
I may have oversimplified things here, but I think you get the idea. Don't worry about what she's thinking, just do what you know is attractive, and then lead. Things will work themselves out if you keep doing the right things.
Get the girl even if you're not rich and handsome, or if you're older than her... If A Guy Is Good-Looking And Wealthy, Won't He Have All Of The Women He Wants, Regardless Of His Skill Level? Does He Really Need To Learn All This Stuff?
This is a great question.
I'm sure that more than one guy has read one of these articles, then driven downtown and seen some handsome guy drive by in a Ferrari with a smoking hot babe next to him and thought: "Looks and money appear to be important factors when it comes to babes."
It doesn't take 20 years of studying human behavior to figure out that looks and money attract women -- you'll definitely have an advantage with them.
Looks and money will allow you to hang out in places like the South of France, where a drink is $40, and there are lots of babes there.
But here's the key ...
A guy who is amazingly handsome and super rich will still fail most of the time with the women he interacts with if his personality isn't together -- especially if he's too much of a wuss.
On the other hand, a guy who really understands what makes women feel attraction, and knows how to interact with them in a way that grabs their attention and keeps it, can succeed often, even if he's broke and ugly.
You'll notice that the rich and handsome guys who are the real mac daddies are the ones who also understand women -- and have Cocky, Funny, Dominant personalities as well.
Think about it. I get far too many e-mails from:
1- Guys who are successful and good-looking, but are very unsuccessful with women, and
2- Average-looking and average-income guys who have tons of success with women...
...to believe that looks and money rule attraction.
They help, but an average man who understands women, communication, and attraction will be more successful than a rich, handsome guy who doesn't.
A final thought for you: You've probably seen those "executive matchmaking" services advertised in your local paper or in fancy car magazines.
Do you know how much they charge men to be members?
Some charge $20,000 or more.
Put that one through your logic machine, and see what you come up with.
What Advice Do You Have For Older Men Who Want To Date Younger Women?
In my younger days, I used to think that once I hit a certain age, my chances with beautiful young women would be next to nothing.
Boy was I wrong!
The fact is that a large percentage of "younger" women love "older" men.
Especially older men who:
1- Rock her world in the bedroom
2- Mentor her
3- Don't tolerate her drama
4- Treat her like a lady
5- Aren't wussbags
The main sign that a woman gives off is very simple to spot: she keeps talking to you .
If a woman isn't interested, she won't talk to you. She'll look around, act bored out of her skull, or move around in an uncomfortable manner.
The first minute or two is often like this anyway, as two people begin a conversation, but if it continues past three to five minutes, you need to move on and try to be a little less boring.
I knew you'd find my answer profound, but if you're still waiting for her to tilt her head, lick her lips, and twirl her hair, then you need to stop reading books published by guys that have nothing better to do than spend 25 years watching people in bars and writing down what they do.
It's simple:
1- Meet girl
2- Get e-mail and number
3- Invite for drink and stimulating conversation
4- Meet and tease, be cocky and funny
5- If she's not psycho, invite her over
6- Use The Kiss Test
7- Don't screw up
I may have oversimplified things here, but I think you get the idea. Don't worry about what she's thinking, just do what you know is attractive, and then lead. Things will work themselves out if you keep doing the right things.
Get the girl even if you're not rich and handsome, or if you're older than her... If A Guy Is Good-Looking And Wealthy, Won't He Have All Of The Women He Wants, Regardless Of His Skill Level? Does He Really Need To Learn All This Stuff?
This is a great question.
I'm sure that more than one guy has read one of these articles, then driven downtown and seen some handsome guy drive by in a Ferrari with a smoking hot babe next to him and thought: "Looks and money appear to be important factors when it comes to babes."
It doesn't take 20 years of studying human behavior to figure out that looks and money attract women -- you'll definitely have an advantage with them.
Looks and money will allow you to hang out in places like the South of France, where a drink is $40, and there are lots of babes there.
But here's the key ...
A guy who is amazingly handsome and super rich will still fail most of the time with the women he interacts with if his personality isn't together -- especially if he's too much of a wuss.
On the other hand, a guy who really understands what makes women feel attraction, and knows how to interact with them in a way that grabs their attention and keeps it, can succeed often, even if he's broke and ugly.
You'll notice that the rich and handsome guys who are the real mac daddies are the ones who also understand women -- and have Cocky, Funny, Dominant personalities as well.
Think about it. I get far too many e-mails from:
1- Guys who are successful and good-looking, but are very unsuccessful with women, and
2- Average-looking and average-income guys who have tons of success with women...
...to believe that looks and money rule attraction.
They help, but an average man who understands women, communication, and attraction will be more successful than a rich, handsome guy who doesn't.
A final thought for you: You've probably seen those "executive matchmaking" services advertised in your local paper or in fancy car magazines.
Do you know how much they charge men to be members?
Some charge $20,000 or more.
Put that one through your logic machine, and see what you come up with.
What Advice Do You Have For Older Men Who Want To Date Younger Women?
In my younger days, I used to think that once I hit a certain age, my chances with beautiful young women would be next to nothing.
Boy was I wrong!
The fact is that a large percentage of "younger" women love "older" men.
Especially older men who:
1- Rock her world in the bedroom
2- Mentor her
3- Don't tolerate her drama
4- Treat her like a lady
5- Aren't wussbags
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