The eternal game of love is a ritual that keeps many of us busy for the majority of our lives. If we stop to think about it, how many of our partners are now a thing of the past? Probably most of them. It's difficult to find that one person who will respect and love us forever and vice versa.

So what happens when all this trial and error in dating finally comes to halt? All those regrettable blind dates, forgettable fix-ups and unnecessary nights spent wondering what you ever saw in "them" become a thing of the past. With all these women in your back pocket, you wonder if the present lady in your life may just be "the one".
Is She The One?
There is that initial inner feeling of "is she the one?" that we all entertain every time we begin dating certain women. But in this particular case, the feeling is still intense even after a few months into the relationship. This is when men start asking themselves questions about the severity of their "addictions" toward their women. They begin their silent inquiry regarding how much they really care for their women because this may actually be the time to settle down with "the one".

But this is part of the whole experience. Delving into the adventure is the only way to come out victorious and with a more-than-suitable soulmate.

Although we must be realistic when considering love at first sight, it is fathomable -- even if it is unlikely. This is why we must sometimes react on impulse and disregard every analytical thought that passes through our consciousness. This is the trick to unleashing that part of ourselves that needs loving assistance and moral support.

Give Her The Test
There are a few experiments that should be put into effect in order to determine your partner's "stayability".

After dining at a restaurant and before picking up the tab, wait to see if she volunteers to foot the bill. This step is a major one that can represent her generosity. Although this deals mainly with financial ability, it abstractly demonstrates that she is independent and stable as well as fair. Of course, just because she offers to pay that doesn't mean you should accept; always be a gentleman.

Another great test is the Bronx Tale ; walk her to the car, open her door first and walk behind the car to the driver's side. If she reaches over to open your door, then she's a keeper. Although she's only unlocking the door for you, it demonstrates that she is considerate and appreciative. Whereas you're a gentleman for opening her door, in turn, she is a gentlewoman for caring enough to open yours. She is willing to reciprocate for every nice thing you do for her.

When setting up a date with her, make an unexpected change in location at the last minute. Explain that there's someone at the original place that you don't wish to see. If she understands your concerns and avoids asking personal questions, then she will probably be willing to compromise in the relationship and give you space so that you're comfortable.

Because she understands that you would discuss the matter if it pleased you to do so, she remains silent and gives you space and freedom without making you feel guilty or suspect.