What's Your Take On Women "Testing" Men? Does This Happen Often? And What Can A Guy Do To Pass These Tests?

A friend of mine who is awesome with women recently told me that he learned everything he needed to know about women from a 19-year-old girl.

They were having a conversation about dating and relationships, and she put it this way: "A woman's job is to always try to take control of the man, and a man's job is to never let that happen."

Now, what's really interesting about this concept is that very few men understand it, but most girls know it intuitively, even at the age of 19.

So what does this all mean?

Women want a man who understands how to be dominant in the relationship.

Now, this does not mean that you have to be a jackass, or become a violent or controlling person.

The key to conveying dominance is simple: Never let things get to you, and never let a woman see you sweat.

Women are constantly testing men to determine if they are dominant (or as I prefer to put it, "higher status").

And most of the time, women aren't even aware that they're doing it!

Remember: A woman can't just ask a man if he is the kind of guy who can stand up to the world on her behalf, but she can test you to see if you are the kind of guy who can at least stand up to her.
Do Pickup Lines Or "Canned" Openers Ever Work... Or Is It Just Completely Lame?

Let's face it: Having the balls to approach a woman can be tough.

That's why sometimes it's a good idea to begin by using some memorized routine that you've picked up from other guys, from my programs, or even from the Internet.

Some good pickup lines, the importance of eye contact and more... Learn a few good conversational openers, and use them as training wheels when you can't think of anything else to say.

Asking a woman's opinion on something is one of my favorite ways of starting a conversation. Here's one you can try out tonight:

"Hey guys, I need a female opinion. On a first date, should the man pay or should you split the bill?"

When they answer -- usually by saying the man should pay -- you can answer...

"The man should pay? What's the difference between that and... prostitution?"

Or better yet, come up with your own good comeback. Keep it light and playful, and maybe even a bit cocky, and you'll get a great result.
How Important Is Eye Contact?

Eye contact is a very powerful, instinctual form of communication.

And it plays a vital role in building attraction, especially when you first meet a girl.

So here's the scoop: If a girl makes eye contact with you, keep making eye contact back until she breaks it.

If she keeps on looking at you, or smiles just a bit, immediately start walking over to her. Don't hesitate; just get up and go.

She's just used her eye contact to say to you: "I'm interested." So go for it.

Decisiveness like this is a behavior women find very attractive, and you'll be pleasantly surprised by the responses you get when you behave in such a strong, masculine way.
What Do You Do When A Woman Tries To Blow You Off?

Let's face it: Getting blown off sucks.

Here are a few lines and techniques you can use to save face and allow you to retain your status in these situations.

These are things you can say under almost any circumstance in which a person is trying to verbally abuse you, insult you, or make you look bad.

Instead of insulting them back, it allows you to just use a bit of cocky & funny attitude to redirect their attack away from you.

Here are five great ones:

1- "Glad you like it."

2- "Thanks for noticing."

3- "Glad you're jealous."

4- "So... that's why you like me so much."

5- "If you say so"

Here are a few examples of how it works...

If a woman says, "You think you're so smart!" You say, "Glad you noticed."

If she accuses you of being a player, you can say, "So that's why you like me so much."

Get it?