Question I’ve Always Wondered About: Is There A Way To Know If A Woman Has A Boyfriend Or Not?
Hey, great job on the “first kiss technique!”

Now on to your question…

If you want to know if a girl has a boyfriend, the first thing to notice is whether or not she's open to flirting with you.

Girls who are taken, and happily taken at that, are usually less flirtatious than women who are available.

Now, this is a generalization and there are a lot of exceptions.

But, if you ask a woman for her number and she gives it to you, then goes out with you, then kisses you, then she's probably single.

If you REALLY want to know, just ask.

I like to look a woman directly in the eye when I'm first talking to her and say...

"Are you single?"

It's great. Most women don't expect it AT ALL in the beginning and it says all the right things.

Most guys say things like, "You probably have a boyfriend, huh?"

This is WUSSY TALK. It's the same thing that the last 100 guys have said to her, and it's lame.

When you look a woman directly in the eye and ask "Are you single?" it communicates strength.

Then you can go into the three-minute e-mail/number technique and get her information.
Normally, I'm A Smart Ass, I'm Always Making Smart Comments, And I'm A General Joker. The Problem Is, When I Go To A Club Or A Bar With Gorgeous Hot Babes My Mind Goes Blank. It's Almost Like My Brain Locks And All I Can Do Is Look With Nothing To Say. Needless To Say, It Frustrates The Hell Outta Me. Any Advice? Should I Do Some Affirmations? How Do I Overcome This?
I think your problem is really pretty simple.

You are experiencing something that I have been through a bazillion times. In fact, I think that most guys have been through this cycle at some point in their life.

One of the ideas that I teach is, "Have one good default thing to do in each common situation."

In other words, it sounds to me like you just haven't taken the time to work out a basic system for yourself that will allow you to meet any woman you come across in one of these situations.

Here's your homework: Take out a piece of paper right now and write down your one single favorite way to start a conversation with a woman.

Next, plan out EXACTLY how it should go in your mind.

Then, mentally rehearse this scenario over and over and over until you have it clearly in your mind.


Dating older women and how to add some sweetness to the mix...Finally, go out tomorrow night and use this one introduction to meet 10 women.

The next day, sit down again for a few minutes and think about how it worked for you.

Think about ways you could improve your approach, and if you come up with some good innovations go ahead and do the same process of mentally rehearsing the new ideas until you have them down.

One thing that really makes me laugh is that MOST GUYS SPEND MORE TIME REHEARSING THEIR VOICEMAIL MESSAGE THAN THEY DO REHEARSING SCENARIOS WITH WOMEN.

You need one good, solid, default thing to do in each common situation with women. So pick one, and refine it until your mind no longer goes blank!
I Have A Thing For Older Women... MILFs If You Will. I've Recently Been Hitting This Martini Bar Where Quite A Few Attractive (And Well-To-Do) Women Go. I've Been Reluctant To Use The Cocky & Funny Technique That I Use On College Girls For These Older Women, As They Probably Don't Play The Same "Games" Younger Ladies Do. What Is Your Advice? Younger Girls Are Great And Energetic, But Those 35-Year-Olds Have Something You Only Get With Age... Experience.
Mature, intelligent women LOVE a Cocky & Funny man.

I think you're going to find that sophisticated women are FAR MORE receptive to your new charm techniques than their younger counterparts...

But be careful. Older women are more experienced, have been through more games, and know what they want and how to get it.

You might be writing me soon to ask me why your new girlfriend has you wearing a collar and barking like a dog.