he says, "Don't wear a condom today, I want to feel you inside me. It feels a lot better without the condom."

You respond, "Aren't you worried that you might get pregnant?"

"No, it's okay, I've been on the Pill for a while."

"Oh, in that case, I'm all up for that!"

This is probably the kind of conversation you'd like to have with your lover. But watch out, what you don't know could harm you. I'm not talking about the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases, you should already know about these. I'm talking about your lover's secret agenda.
The Female Animal
"...she is a hunter and a gatherer...for the perfect man."

This phrase probably excites you right? It shouldn't. In fact, it should send shivers down your spine. What am I talking about? I'm talking about the crazy things that some women do, to keep their men trapped in a relationship.

We all know that with women desperate times call for desperate m
easures. Especially in a competitive world, where the supply of really good men is scarce. How low is the supply of perfect men? So low that some women will resort to the following, in order to get the perfect man:

1. Steal their best friend's lover away.
2. Try to seduce a married man.
3. Keep him away from the influence of his buddies.
4. Keep him chained up in the basement of her house.
5. Try to convert a gay man back to being heterosexual.
6. Her last resort...the secret agenda.

Women are always on the lookout for men, but not just any ordinary man, the mythical perfect man. Once they've found that godly figure, they'll do anything to keep him, and never let him go.
Her Secret Agenda
How can she do this? With her last resort, the red alarm nuclear button ; get pregnant. Now you're probably laughing, but it happens more often than you think. In fact, this article is inspired by what happened to a buddy of mine.

To make a long story short, my friend was dating a woman for a few months. According to him, she wasn't marriage material, but the sex was good, so he decided to stay with her until he found better (yes, I know its not a very nice thing to do). When she realized that they were not going to last very long, she suggested that she go on the Pill. My friend, being a trusting person, had no objectives.



Her secret motive was to keep him forever by having his child. So as you probably guessed, she forgot to take the pill. Side note, in order for birth control pills to be effective, they must be taken daily, no exception. Two months later she announced the news to my friend; she was pregnant. Guess what? She wasn't surprised at all. Hmm, I wonder why?

The result was that my friend lost the bright future that lay ahead of him. He took responsibility, and decided to marry her (hear the cellar door closing?). One year later, they're separated. The person that will suffer the most in this horrible messtheir adorable child.
Your Secret Agenda
When men search for women to date, they also look for that perfect person. When men meet women, the women are usually classified into the marriage type , or the casual type . This decision is usually based on how easy it was to get her into bed. If she's the marriage type , than good for him. He'll be making love to someone special. If she's the casual type , he'll have sex with her until someone better comes along.

My advice to you here is to always use protection when having sex with the casual type. You cannot trust her word on such an important matter. Remember, it's your life too. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you don't love?

If you are with that special marriage type , you take a chance, and trust that she is taking the Pill on a daily basis. If she gets pregnant, at least you'll be with someone you truly care for. Whatever the case may be, it is important that you know that a child is never to blame for the mistakes that consenting adults make.

So the next time you hear, don't use a condom, I'm on the Pill , remember the chance that you're taking with her possible secret agenda.