You're standing in line at a local restaurant, and right next to you is a beautiful woman. You can't keep your eyes off her, nor can you resist her sweet fragrance. The only thing going through your mind is, I want to talk to her, and maybe even get her number. But when the time comes to actually speak to her, you can't say anything because you're too scared of rejection. Your tongue gets tied, and you can't think of what to say. Then the two of you go your separate ways, and
sit at different tables by yourselves.

What a wasted opportunity. You could have started a conversation, and invited her to have lunch with you. You might never meet again, and who knows, your destiny might have been linked through a simple hello . Instead, you are left cursing yourself. You stupid idiot, another wasted opportunity. Next time, I'll be ready and I won't back down. Of course when the next time arrives, you act the same way as the previous one
Keep Expectations Low
One of the reasons why some men have such a hard time meeting women, is because of the view they have about approaching them. The problem is that men think that they need the perfect sales pitch or pick-up line to either get women into bed, or marry them.

This is a big order to fill, and the odds of accomplishing such a task (for the average man), are virtually impossible. So most men choose to stay silent instead of approaching women, and avoid rejection all together.

When approaching a woman, keep it simple, and keep your expectations low. You're not going through a job interview; you're not meeting her parents; and your definitely not getting married. What you are doing, is making a friend , and nothing more. If you think this way, it'll be a lot easier to approach a woman. Forget about meeting a lover. Concentrate on making a friend first, the lover role will soon follow. But if you think that you need to seduce her from the outset, you'll only make it harder for you to approach her.


A Pleasant Conversation
If you keep in mind that you're just trying to socialize with a stranger, you'll have the courage . Just tell yourself, I'm going to have a pleasant conversation with the woman standing beside me. I'm looking for nothing but a few minutes of pleasant conversation. I'm not looking for a date, a kiss, a lover, or a wife.

Here are three reasons why you should approach women:
Practice: Don't only approach the beautiful women. Talk to old women, tall women, and even unattractive women. The important point is to get a lot of practice, and for you to feel comfortable to start a conversation with woman.

Meet New People: Adding more people to your repertoire of friends won't hurt, and there is nothing more charming than a friendly person who knows everyone in the neighborhood.

Small World: You would be surprised at how frequently you will run into the same women again. It's a small world, and even in mega metropolises like New York and Los Angeles, we run into the same people over, and over again. This time around, the women will be a little friendlier, and what better opportunity to invite them out for a drink?.
Don't Limit Your Options
You'll soon realize that speaking to women for the sheer pleasure of conversation, without any ulterior motives, will bring hundreds of wonderful new women into your life. You'll also view every new casual exchange with a new woman as less important. You'll feel more confident, easy-going, and is if talking to new women is a natural part of your life.

As you gain confidence when meeting new women, they will find you utterly irresistible. If you get a date, great, and if you don't, that's also fine. The important thing to remember is that by meeting many women, you no longer limit your choice to a mere few, while at the same time you keep a supply of female friends for future considerations.